Am I getting false IOIs from this girl?
A little background to our history: HB Happy and I have known of each other since high school but never really talked outside of class. We hung out once at a friend's house last summer - we were both seeing different people at the time - but we never really hung out until this summer.
LAST SUMMER: We had a party at a friend's house. HB Happy and I played strip poker in my friend's room - happy to say that she wasn't doing so great. But my friend busted in and killed it for us. So after the get together I drove HB Happy home, but stopped on the way to talk story. We had a deep convo for a few hours and we ended up making out and almost went all the way until a car full of drunks came by - killed the mood - so I drove her home. She's a horny drunk btw - she told me and showed me so.
THIS SUMMER: We had a get together at a friend's house where we drank and talked story until the night dwindled down and everybody left except HB Happy and I - we're always staying behind and cleaning up. Well, we were alone in the living room just talking story and reconnecting on old times, talking about each other's pasts, experiences and love life. I flirted, escalated, and I eventually pulled her onto me and we made out. But she's so self-conscious and shy that she throws out a LMR. (This is before I knew anything about PUA Forum or pick up in general.) Instead of brushing it off, I try to take the lead but she resists, so I drove her home.
A few weeks after that, another get together at the same friend's house, doing the same thing except we made out in the car before I dropped her off at home. She told me that all she wants is "someone to make out with." But, she probably just said that because she was drunk.
I'd hit her up on facebook and text, but she never answers me until the end of the week. I NEGGED her on that a few weekends ago and now she texts me randomly asking me about my day. I don't think she feels comfortable hanging out with me one-on-one because she flakes every time. A few nights ago I decided to escalate our conversation by "accidentally" texting her for a booty call - as a joke because I've done something like it before with her and she was so interested in who,what,when,where, and why I was texting her about it.
ME: BOOTY CALL
ME: osht my bad
ME: I have some time to cruise before I head back home.
Happy: I think I'm going to chill. blah blah blah
ME: I gotta wake up in a few hours anyway maybe next time. night doc.
I didn't get a response from her for two days and today I texted her back.
ME: Doc, I'm sooooooo stuffed! 12:40pm
Happy: What did ya eat? 1:16pm
ME: blah blah blah 2:24pm
It's been 3hours but she's probably at work for another 6 hours.
I don't understand. She is very cute, very smart, and very happy. We can have deep conversations together because we can relate to being away from home and pursuing the things we need in life. Last week (before the "booty call") we had a deep convo about how we both miss being away from home because everything here including frienships and relationships aren't taken seriously and that love can't be found here. She is very much LTR material and has a lot going on for herself. She's just one of the few girls that I CANNOT read - and it irritates me because it feels like I'm doing everything right.
Maybe I should just put her in MY friendzone (P.S. I will not hesitate to marry her in a few years - as long as she takes me to Japan with her)
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