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    There's this chick at work she's about a 9, I'm quite attracted to her she helped with move some chairs today without having to ask lol, how do I #close with a CO-WORKER?!

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    Default Re: need help with girl at work

    First of all - don't sh1t where you eat.

    ...but if you must:

    Build attraction and rapport through little in-passing interations (with all of your female co-workers - and bromance the dudes) do it otw from your desk to the copyer, from the water cooler to the bathroom - whatever.

    -use shotgun Negs in-passing

    -don't try to DHV in-passing or it'll come off as try-hard

    -body rock whenever you interact with her (the "I'm gonna walk away kind, not the "special kid" kind)

    -disqualify her

    -(after she's earned it) allow her to qualify herself... then neg, but leave hope.
    Basic example:
    You: "You look like you only date Spanish guys,"
    Her: "No, I like [your type] too"
    You: "That's wierd, I only date [not her or your race] girls... can't say I'm not curious though"

    -hang out with your other co-workers once in a while - especially the other females (HB6+ only)

    -after she's attracted and is giving you definite and consistent IOIs, then you can start inviting her to join the outings of you and the other female co-workers (social proof + jealousy = #close and more)

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    Default Re: need help with girl at work

    Thanks for the advice, could you give me an example of a shotgun neg? And also could you BRIEFLY explain what body rocking is

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    Default Re: need help with girl at work

    A shotgun Neg (the way I use it - different people call them different things) is quick and in passing, nothing slows down for it (like using a shotgun in HALO to fight the Flood... if you've played it).

    If not though - a shotgun Neg doesn't have the possibility of a response (there's no way for her to counter it and try to qualify herself) the best she can do is just laugh at you teasing her and accept the value-decrease.

    Normal Neg:
    PUA: "You seem like one of those cute nerdy chicks - or did you fail high school?"
    HB: "Hahaha, no I got good grades... meh, meh, meh"
    ...then PUA can keep the convo going about her being a nerd while Negging / disqualifying / push pull - until the subject changes.

    Shotgun Neg (usually in reference to a previous conversational neg):

    PUA: "Your voice is so sweet and sugary - you're giving me diabetes -
    stop talking!"

    PUA: "Hey there [Terminator-nick-name-in-reference-to-what-she-does]" Receptionist = Receptinator, Accountant = Accountinator, etc
    ...giving a nick name is an IOI (pull) but calling her a robot Arnold Schwarzennager brands her as non-femenin and is thus a Neg (push)

    PUA: *in the break room* "You eating lunch alone again? Well go on then, I let you get back to it." *pretend to leave, then join her*


    Summary


    Normal Negs generate a back-and-forth banter where she tries to catch your interest while you tease her (push / pulling the string away) while smiling and keeping eyecontact (pull / letting the cat catch the string... then yanking it away again).

    Shotgun Negs lower her value in a friendly way, but there's no banter for her to dispute it. She just has to accept it and laugh. Has to be cocky/funny though.



    Body Rocking - body language which suggests the PUA is about to walk away.

    Mystery specifically describes stepping back on one foot, stepping back on the other, then stepping back forward to your original position.
    Two others I've used:
    -Glancing / turning shoulders around the room while saying something DHV - shows non-interest in her reaction
    -Turning hips and shoulders away from her while she talks, keeping a hand on something in her direction and maintaining eyecontact (this one usually preceeds a traditional Mytery body rock during my response to whatever she said.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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