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Thread: First date in 6 years..ADVICE NEEDED!!

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    Default Re: First date in 6 years..ADVICE NEEDED!!

    There may be better answers to this (I'm just a beginner) but I would go with the tactic of having her meet you at yours before you get drinks then make the excuses of forgetting your phone/wallet and bring her in as its rude to leave her out like that.

    This allows her to see your place and to get comfortable with the surroundings so its not a big surprise when she comes back later to hang out *one thing will lead to another*. This is something I took directly out of the Mystery Method and if I where in your situation I would do the same.

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    Default Re: First date in 6 years..ADVICE NEEDED!!

    I have a different take.

    Something that's f*cked up that many PUA's do is push push push. Just relax. She may not be comfortable with it at the moment, but if you don't rush a girl she'll eventually do whatever you want. So maybe you can build rapport in 5 mintues. Good job Bro, but you can't build trust. If you ever try taking The October Man Sequence to the extreme or to give her an energy orgasm you'll learn this.

    Guys think time puts them in the friendzone; it doesn't. Time makes you neurotic and you worry yourself into the friendzone. Time in itself is just time. Keep calm and carry on. Why break through her walls if she'll take them down herself?

    I know Wygant is "anti" PUA, but you all should listen to him more. His arguements are sound. Girls will do half the sh*t we try so hard to rush them through on their own if we simply give them time.

    She'll come over because she wants to come over, have no doubt on that. If a girl wants to have sex with me but knows she has to throw up ASD, I let her. I get it. Give it a week or two and you'll get the result you wanted without risking blowing everything by pushing her.
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    Default Re: First date in 6 years..ADVICE NEEDED!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    I have a different take.

    Something that's f*cked up that many PUA's do is push push push. Just relax. She may not be comfortable with it at the moment, but if you don't rush a girl she'll eventually do whatever you want. So maybe you can build rapport in 5 mintues. Good job Bro, but you can't build trust. If you ever try taking The October Man Sequence to the extreme or to give her an energy orgasm you'll learn this.

    Guys think time puts them in the friendzone; it doesn't. Time makes you neurotic and you worry yourself into the friendzone. Time in itself is just time. Keep calm and carry on. Why break through her walls if she'll take them down herself?

    I know Wygant is "anti" PUA, but you all should listen to him more. His arguements are sound. Girls will do half the sh*t we try so hard to rush them through on their own if we simply give them time.

    She'll come over because she wants to come over, have no doubt on that. If a girl wants to have sex with me but knows she has to throw up ASD, I let her. I get it. Give it a week or two and you'll get the result you wanted without risking blowing everything by pushing her.
    I agree, I am guilty of being too pushy maybe its the direct gamer in me. Sometimes being calm is the way to go, especially in this situation.
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