So there this hairdresser opposite my work...she has the most mesmerizing eyes and ive been tossing up whether to talk to her or not.
I know I shouldn't think about it and just go up and approach but this is why I have neglected to -->
- she is literally opposite my work , if i mess things up it will be uncomfortable for all involved WHEN i do see her again the next day
-im Indian ,shes Lebanese....not sure if she is into/against Indian guys or not...but this might be an issue
-the hairdresser she works for ONLY does women's hair , so not possible for me to go their asking for a haircut
-has seen me and Ive seen her for approx 8 months....so walking up now when I didn't 8 months ago might seem creepy.
I acknowledge that things like my nationality to not speaking to each other for 8 months might just be shitty excuses my mind is making up so I don't have to go through with this....but no more...I want to! I want to now...even if I fail..I tried....and il also be getting more comfortable with seeing rejection not as a personal attack but a learning experience.
What would be a good gambit to start with? Where should I lead her in the conversation......
Any other tips?
thanks in advance