hey all, so the 'problem' if you wanna call it that, is this..
i like this girl (hb10) - oneitis you call in PUA?
anyways, i talked to her once on fb, but then i deleted my fb account and didn't add her again..
i see her at least once every 2 weeks in clubs during the weekend
Now for some IOI's (i dont know if they are actual IOI's or she does them without being interested in me.. coincidence)
1) i held eye contact ONCE for couple seconds with her, on our way home in a minivan..
2) she usually stays in the front seat in the van (not always though), but my m8 was drunk and i told him "you stay in the front seat, so if you dont feel well .. etc.." she didn't say anything but went directly in other seats..
3) last saturday, i was in a club, having lots of fun with friends, hi5 random people and also friends, getting TONS of IOI's from girls (didn't really like them though :s), then i moved where she was - (to move to other part of club, i needed to pass near her) i didn't look at her, but i still kinda noticed her looking.. (from the sides of my eyes)
4) that same night at the same club, i was with friends in a corner, drinking something (socially) dancing, laughing, having fun :P.. then she and her friends walked right beside me, and she grabbed my forearm for a second.. but i still noticed
now you might say they are all IOI's, but deep in me i think they are not really IOI's for the simple reason (im average looking, the only upside im a bit athletic, but im sort of shy around her and don't talk much in the minivan.. unlike in clubs when not near her) and shes like a hb 10 with TOO MANY GUYS wanting her..
the question is.. can i sort of be imaging these stuff.. like when she grabbed my hand.. it could have been any1 elses hand because there where people near her (she on heels) and was gonna fall or anything?..
she didn't stay in the front seat that time because she was listening to what i was saying or because she didn't feel like staying in front that night..
eye contact.. was she staring (because of being sleepy.. maybe? or actual eye contact that shows interest?)
when she looked at me in the club when i passed.. was it because she wanted to look at me.. or because i was passing..
Note: i really wanna learn the pua stuff before i approach her (only learning pua to get her actually :P)..
im no good pua yet.. and i don't wanna ruin my only chance with her.. plus it gets awkward if i get rejected and i see her once every 2 weeks..
any thoughts/ideas? would be grateful..thx in advance