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    Unhappy Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP

    I find that this is a frequent problem I have when making approaches. I already posted a thread of this but i figured it couldn't hurt to repost it. (don't worry I'll be short and sweet). When I approach and try to start some conversion or build attraction, the woman just gives me one word answers or just smiles and leaves. She seems to just show a lack of interest. I'm a fairly friendly guy and i always smile when approaching. How do I fix this problem? All help is appreciated.
    When playing the game, always live on the edge. You always get rejected by every girl you don't approach.

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    Default Re: Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP

    bump...id like to know this to...how to deal with girls that seemingly have NO interest in you whatsoever.

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    Default Re: Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP

    If they have no interest whatsoever its because your not coming off as interesting. You don't have to be tall, model looking to get her interested. Its easier, but not necessary.

    It has to do with your MOOD/ENERGY/ and APPROACH and opening.

    I personally don't use any routines or pickup lines. Im more DIRECT when Need brand INDIRECT when necessary. Try this: Next time you want to talk to a girl, don't look at her too long before approaching. Walk up to her, make an observation about her( OMG Your ankles must be killing you in this shoes" or whatever) and just keep the conversation going. Girls like to talk. Basically if your FRAME is right you can say anything!!!! Your words don't mean SHIT!!!! .......I walked up to a girl this Weekend and said " I seriously dislike your the size of your heels and walked away...SHe grabbed my arm and pulled me back and we chatted for 20 min. before I went back to my group... I don't even know what I'm going to say til I'm face to face

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    Default Re: Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP

    first of all it happens.. even the best PUAs in the world get rejected sometimes, and there's nothing you can do.. but most of the times its the 'pua' fault..
    why? (many reasons)

    1) body language - it plays a very important role in the approach.. it shows a lot about you, are you confident or shy and needy and maybe socially inept?, do you show a false time constraint or your body language shows that you will stay talking to her for the rest of the night?, do you lean in to talk (dont do that, shows neediness)

    2) when you approach, do you approach from behind (unconfident, shy), front(way too direct, aggresive) or like a 10 o'clock (best position and you can manipulate your body language for false time constraint aswell)?

    3) did you stare at her before you approached, or did you just just approach in less than 3 seconds?

    4) Social Proof - if you in a club (you didn't mention where you appraoch), you need high social value, having fun, being the AMOG, having lots of alpha male traits, smiling, big gestures (friendly hugs, hi5's etc), talk to random people (others who are watching you, will think you know them and makes you very social and they think "there must be something special with this guy, since everybody knows him and likes him" )


    last note: if you get rejected, don't take it personally, learn from it and feel good because 90% of the guys didn't have the balls to approach
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP

    What kinds of questions / comments are you making when you talk to them?
    It sounds like you may be making too much small-talk / fluff / mundane chit-chat.

    Try asking open ended questions, instead of something she can answer with a "yes" or "no".

    Also, avoid anything that would resemble "job interview" questions. (Where ya from? What do you do? Have you been here before? etc..)

    Whenever you talk to a girl, you should try to hear that old Cyndi Lauper song playing in your head, to remind you where the conversation needs to be: "Girls just wanna have fun".

    If they're having fun, things will go great! If they're not; they'll bail!



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    Exclamation Re: Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP

    Maybe this will help: I usually approach on the beach and usually go cocky funny on how the girl is afraid to go in the water or I'll be a bit more direct and strike up a conversation based on the situation.
    When playing the game, always live on the edge. You always get rejected by every girl you don't approach.


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