Re: Displays of lack of interest. NEED HELP
first of all it happens.. even the best PUAs in the world get rejected sometimes, and there's nothing you can do.. but most of the times its the 'pua' fault..
why? (many reasons)
1) body language - it plays a very important role in the approach.. it shows a lot about you, are you confident or shy and needy and maybe socially inept?, do you show a false time constraint or your body language shows that you will stay talking to her for the rest of the night?, do you lean in to talk (dont do that, shows neediness)
2) when you approach, do you approach from behind (unconfident, shy), front(way too direct, aggresive) or like a 10 o'clock (best position and you can manipulate your body language for false time constraint aswell)?
3) did you stare at her before you approached, or did you just just approach in less than 3 seconds?
4) Social Proof - if you in a club (you didn't mention where you appraoch), you need high social value, having fun, being the AMOG, having lots of alpha male traits, smiling, big gestures (friendly hugs, hi5's etc), talk to random people (others who are watching you, will think you know them and makes you very social and they think "there must be something special with this guy, since everybody knows him and likes him" )
last note: if you get rejected, don't take it personally, learn from it and feel good because 90% of the guys didn't have the balls to approach
The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!