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    Hansen is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Date cancelled by her. How should I play it?

    Hey
    I did a direct daygame approach to a 9. We talked for 5 min and i did a number close. Here's how our text conversation looked like afterwards:

    "In the beginning we send a few texts and she says she can't meet me for a few days. After that she texts me and says 'lets meet for coffee tuesday?'. This is what I reply:
    Me: Yea, sure! Let's meet up at X 17:00?
    Her: Hey X! I messed up my schedule, im so sorry, tomorrow wont work at all.

    It has now passed 1 week since i approached her and my texting game with her has been really bad. So the attraction i built during our meet is probably gone. And basically she cancelled the date in a very cold way, not naming an excuse or adding 'lets meet another time'.

    I really want to meet her, so how should I play this?

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    Express27 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Date cancelled by her. How should I play it?

    Don't make it seem like it is a big deal to you. You have tons of options and this girl shouldn't be controlling you in any way. I don't know how your text game has been going, but in general, as you seem to be experiencing, texting is far more likely to deteriorate attraction than it will build it. This girl initiated plans with you and then cancelled...she probably had a legitimate reason or else she wouldn't have made plans in the first place. Either that or you scared her off with your texting. Either way, you are where you are now. You probably are not in a position to go for a D2 with a lot of commitment, so stick with something very quick. Text her something like..."I usually grab a coffee at X after work, come join me on (DAY) and we can hang for a bit until I have to go meet up with friends later." Something that has a very casual and minimal time commitment is your best course of action. If that falls through than let her go.


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