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    Default Weird Situation, showed IOIs but has boyfriend

    Ok guys, I was going to a club and I was standing in line to get in and it was pissing down with rain. In front of me where 2 girls and their gay friend, they where nice enough to let me under their massive umbrella.

    I got chatting to them and it was going well, I engaged fully with the group. When we got talking about what we do I told them I'm an activist and I speak in public about injustice in the world (I had a segment on standing up gay rights and got instant rapport with whole group).

    I got talking with my target and she said she was an artist, she was cool and I liked her so I ran the cube on her and did some cold reading. Everything was going well, we made constant eye contact, she was smiling through the whole conversation and her friends seemed to approve of me.

    We got into the club where I said "You look seem really interesting, how about I take your number down and we can hang out at some point" She instead gave me her facebook (which is legit) and when we where saying good bye, we where shaking but it turned into holding hands in a way and she squeezed my hand (Mystery stated that this was a massive IOI). We had a hug at the end and it was quite a passionate one too.

    I had fun in the club, opened up a few sets, got a couple of numbers but I was more interested in this girl as we seemed to have a really good connection.

    The problem I found is that I got back to my flat and typed her in on facebook (I have not added her, will wait until tomorrow to show I'm not needy/desperate) and found she has a boyfriend who looks like a typical person around this area (Not the most clever or interesting) and she did not mention him what so ever during our conversation.

    Shes cute and definitely my type (creative, independent and cool). So my question here is what do I do to get around the boyfriend thing and to actually go out with her. I saw her friends later and they gave me a smile of approval. I just need to know what I should do, she was the only girl I really found interesting that night so I do want her but I played it cool through out. So if I can get any advise I would be happy!

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    Default Re: Weird Situation, showed IOIs but has boyfriend

    1) If she doesn't mention the BF then don't ask about him. Game her like a single chick - maybe they broke up and she hasn't taken it down yet, maybe she's bored with him - doesn't matter, game her like she's single.

    2) If she does bring him up run BF Destroyer and then continue as usual

    3) Don't get one-itis
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Weird Situation, showed IOIs but has boyfriend

    Thanks for the reply mate!

    I was thinking the exact same thing, forget the boyfriend and keep going with her, have casual chats, leave conversation early to show I have a life.

    If not I can use the boyfriend destroyer which I have practised (did it to one girl I know in front of all our friends, made him look so bad) so I'm getting there!

    I will never have one-itis, gamed a HB9 last week who was far more better, got a flake number or I didn't take it down properly (showed her number on her phone and said to copy it) so I really couldn't care less, I know women aren't scarce and I like gaming in the right situations (don't like over crowded areas but at the same time I don't like it too empty), I show almost unbreakable confidence at times and people always think I'm older than I am by the power in my voice and body language, at the moment I'm just practising and I like this girl, so a short term thing would be ok for now!

    I'm just practising my game for next year at University and the party week at the beginning so I can find a real gem as well!


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