I am married and have been dating a married woman. We met on a website. We were together for a few months. We chatted every day and shared a lot of laughs. I could make her laugh. (with me, not at me)
She had an absolutely shitty relationship with her husband who sulked like a bitch all the time. He bugged her for sex which she gave him to keep peace in her life. But she NEVER orgasmed with him, needed lube to be wett and always faked it.
By contrast with me, she got really wet, initiated with me to meet and told me I made her happy. All good right? I know she came for me because I fucked her for hours, and when she came her nipples were rock hard and she was sensitive to touch after coming. She never said she loved me, but used the word "smitten" to describe how she felt. I was the first and only person she has known to give her multiple orgasms.
Right before we broke up, she said she hated POF and wanted to be exclusive. She told me she shouldn't have married her husband and even said the words "If you were my husband ...."
Finally to the point. I got an email saying "Can't do this anymore. Need time to work things out with the hub." They have had blowout fights, so I believe her. She has kids and I believe she won't leave even though she is miserable with him. I called her once or twice to check in on her and she was pleasant but asked me to let her be and "give her time".
The rub is that I now see her active on the website where we met. When I asked her if she was "on the hunt", she ignored and blocked me. I have left her alone ever since. To me, if she is trying to find someone better, she is insane. However, it is a tiny fear, but am I being played? Was I "let down easy?"
What are the experts thoughts? My inclination is that she needs sexual relief but doesn't want the emotional connection. I plan to leave her alone and let her sort out her feelings and thoughts. I can't imagine she will find anyone who can please her like me and have a good friendship too.
Is leaving her alone the right thing to do? I am chatting with other women and making progress, but what we had was really something and I can't help but miss her as we honestly liked each other.
Thanks for reading all this and appreciate in advance any responses.