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    Question Becoming a Fierce "Lone Wolf"

    I've dedicated myself to getting better at PUA, and I'd love to be sarging more. My goal is two or three times a week. My wingmen are only available one (or maybe two) times a week. That's on a good week. Thus I'm looking to get better at being a "lone wolf."

    I've already read about the concept of "insta-friends." Just making social/warm-up approaches and making friends for the night with random folks, similar to how we pick women. Should I start setting goals for myself around this? Do I just start with getting comfortable in the environment?

    I've gone solo before and had gals call me out on it. "Who are you here with?" Back when I was an AFC one alpha female was really impressed that I'd come out without any back up. Her IOIs were intimidating, so I ran away. I've tried texting my friends for support while I'm out, but that's DLV.

    Please advise, especially linking back to older posts on this topic.

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    Default Re: Becoming a Fierce "Lone Wolf"

    Just go out..it is not easy to go out by yourself, but I would rather go out by myself than having a wigman that will ruin my chances of getting a girl. When I go out I meet as much girls as much guys, I am not out there to impress girls. I am out there in a personal journey...to understand the female psychic!If a girl ask where are my friends...I respond by saying 'you are one' and the rest I don't know...'but in the mean time take good care of me Missy'!

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    Cool Re: Becoming a Fierce "Lone Wolf"

    Thanks for the encouragement, Conquistador82! I've gone out every day this week except for Thursday. However, I was only a lone-wolf on Wednesday at my favorite swing dance venue. It was a really fun night because I know the venue, and it's really easy for me to make approaches at a social dance.

    Friday night I spent the vast of majority my time in set, so it didn't really matter that I had a group of guys nearby. I want to see other people succeed at this, but I'm realizing that I need to just focus on making my own approaches. In the past, I've been worried about winging for my friends and helping them make approaches.

    I'll post some of the great info that I found on the PUA Forums about lone wolfing when I get a chance later this week.

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    Default Re: Becoming a Fierce "Lone Wolf"

    Setting goals might help or it might hinder your progress if you don't meet your expectations. Saying your going to open 5, 10 , how many sets is kind of meaningless in my eyes. Have fun learning the process of pick-up and learn how certain situations are similar and different. Introduce yourself to people powerfully and care who they are, it will build your social circle. Going out by yourself has good advantages for logistical purposes. You can do it!


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