Hello pua community,
First post here, decided to help out a good friend who sounds like hes having some marriage problems so Im posting on his behalf. There a young couple in their late 20's, been married about 1 an a half years.
From what ive been told thus far, deffo sounds like major needyness an insecurity issues with the wife. Hubby apparently never gets angry with her, just accepts it, but his patience is running out. Heres the situation.
Guy met this girl on this chinese site called qq, they fell in love, he flew over there, got to know the fam, an eventually they got married, been living togeather ever since. Fastforward to 5 months ago an shes started displaying alot of needyness an insecurity.
She has an argument over nothing 2-3 times a day, and dosnt really trust him. when ever she sees or hears of him talking to other women, she assumes he was flirting an yells at him/pissed for a few days/acts like a total bitch. She also twists the situations so hes always in the wrong, which to me sounds like shes reframing for a powergrab in order to sooth her insecurity? Or something.
Lastly, she dosnt really get along with many peeps in the states and basically refuses to make friends. They even recently had some chinese students stay with them which was her idea an she eventually got pissed off with them/started being rude even though the guests apparently were super friendly an kept the place clean..
Also, my mates never heard of pickup arts before, and I live in the uk, hes in the states, so If I could get some advice that I could easily translate to noobie over instant chat that would be perfect. Thanks for reading.