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    salgeek is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with a girl I've liked forever who I think now has a boyfriend

    you know those girls that you first had a crush on and you wish that you had acted on it, but you had no confidence to do it then? Well, there's this girl who I would see every year when she came on holiday, and I really liked her. I didn't tell her, and now I regret it.

    Well, we email regularly, and she was saying that when I come back home for the holidays, she might come visit. She was giving very positive signs. Anyway, I noticed on FB that she was in a relationship (popped up like 5 days after our last convo). Anyway, now I am back and I FB messaged her asking: "When am I getting my visit?", and there has been no response.

    Basically, should I pursue her more? If so, what should I do?

    This is one of those things that I really want to do (even if she does have a bf) because I feel that it will settle a lot of things from my past.

    Thanks!

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    Autismus is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: Need help with a girl I've liked forever who I think now has a boyfrien

    I'd say don't "pursue her" as such, just vontinue your usual interactions to keep her comfortable ---> that'll get you the visit

    Then as you guys hang over holiday do neg her and run BF Destroyer early, then run your indirect/covert game as usual ---> escalate kino, token resist, don't try to reason with her LMR and voila! Fclose
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Need help with a girl I've liked forever who I think now has a boyfrien

    This breaks alot of PUA rules, but I must share my experience. The last time I got close to a woman back in high school she unexpectedly got a bf when we were really hitting it off. I got so distraught that I text her while half asleep and said "You know that should've been us." I felt so stupid afterwards and in the morning I received a text back with her saying "I know " We talked a bit afterwards than she admitted to me she didn't even know why she agreed to be with him. After a couple of days we hung out then she ended up breaking up with him to be with me. Then we stayed together for the next 3 1/2 years and never looked back.

    It's a bit cheesy and only happened one time, but my question to you is.......are you feeling lucky......punk.


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