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    vitality is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default my profile and what to do if the first message doesn't work.

    My pof profiles name is awesome_Eric. (comments? and why can't I un-underline it?)
    So when I send out messages on pof or match (my match profile is pretty much the same but a bit shorter) they'll open the message, they'll look at my profile and maybe a quarter of the time they'll actually message me back. Even when using the basic templates of what's worked for others on here doesn't tend to be that successful. Does anybody have a follow up message they use to neg them for not returning messages? I know it seems kind of try hard to message them more then once but geographically I'm running out of good looking girls.

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    Default Re: my profile and what to do if the first message doesn't work.

    Hey Vitality, I checked out your profile. While it's very well written, it's also rather long. This issue is sort of a catch 22 - you want to convey as much information as possible but you don't want to put too much people will get bored reading it. While all of your stuff in there is good, to me it's simply too much. Try leaving a little mystery to yourself ;] if you want some tips of where I think you could cut some stuff out, let me know and I'd be willing to give advice.

    As for messaging a girl twice, I wouldn't do it. If you're finding you've gone through ALL of the attractive girls within a reasonable distance of you, try a different site. OKCupid has given me a good bit of success. And there are plenty others. Like you said, messaging twice will make you come off as a try hard, and while it's tempting to just shoot them another message (what's the harm, right?) that's not exactly something girls look for.


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