Hi there! As you might have seen in my other post, I am a waiter and I have recently lost AA. I don't have a problem breaking the 3 second rule. I am not ashamed to go there and approach women, but since I lack experience I have to think what I'm going to say in advance because:
1. They are customers and if they get mad at me they might not come back (Boss might kill me).
2. I can't talk so much time. After all, I'm working.
Because of point 2, I have to be really direct and I kind of go for two goals. To know where they are going or, if she is with her family or MALE friends, to give MY phone number.
Example from tonight:
8SET (3 girls).
When I bring them their drinks...
HB 8: Hey what's your name?
HB 8: You are the kindest waiter here.
Me: I know.
HB 8: Could you bring me an ash tray?
Me: Shall I bring you my phone number too?
HB 8: Yes!
Shall I continue to give my number or just ask where are they going out to? The thing is I live in a small town so it's quite obvious where they are going to be.