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    geshed is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default farked it up w/ a girl I finally had real chemistry with

    <fuck it>


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    Default Re: farked it up w/ a girl I finally had real chemistry with

    That really sucks I guess... Any more details? If not, welcome to the game. Lol.

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    geshed is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: farked it up w/ a girl I finally had real chemistry with

    Haha, I had written out this like 2000 word essay and was just thinking "fark it"

    I've read up on some terms so I'll try to make it short:

    * I usually don't have bad "natural" game... no real knowledge of PUA community stuff

    * I'm more into finding/falling into LTRs via natural chemistry than anything else ATM

    Met a girl, completely my type, no super hottie but definitely deals with other men (mostly AFCs/orbiters it seems with the occasional ONS). This was spontaneously at a friends house. She initiated a ton of kino, I took a bit to warm up to her, but once I got to know her, things felt great.

    She proactively gave me her number.

    I was very busy all week, and didn't call. Saw her again the next weekend.

    Note that my social status in this circle (music/arts scene) is very high, so tons of DHV I don't even have to worry about.

    I was working the event so I didn't attend to her, no biggie -- probably for the best even. She knows (at least from facebook or whatever) that I'm a super busy guy with lots of social sh1t going on.

    The NEXT weekend (two weeks after she gave me her #), I casually invite her out. She very very readily accepts; comes over my place; her friends that were going to meet her at the venue "didn't end up coming", etc.

    She asks to stay over my place *before we even leave*.

    Tons of comfort, lots of attraction.

    I led her around on a super fun and dynamic date, lots of escalating kino all night.

    I really started to like this girl, we had very natural flowing conversations. Missed opportunities to kiss her when we were out =/

    She's perfectly eager to get back to my place. **Now I really fark sh1t up**

    I miss opportunities to initiate some making out, and instead we talk for hours until she's exhausted and smoke weed (durr).

    ** Now I just farking decimate this sh1t **

    Lead her up to my bed, *finally* start kissing but came on way too sexual, she says "I like you but I don't want to hook up". I say OK, no problem, give her a t-shirt.

    Now I am all stoned and hyped up and while she's trying to sleep, I'm like up and about and asking her sh1t.

    Eventually, because I'm acting all hyper and weird, she moves downstairs to sleep on the couch. But I'm still like rusting about, and come down to have a smoke on the deck, etc. I think she's feeling like she can't sleep / creeped out because I'm all around doing sh1t.

    I even tried to make another move, and she was very receptive at first but then pushed me away.

    So I kept her up until like 7am, she asked if I could drive her home and I just couldn't (I didn't feel comfortable with driving at all), so I was like "can you get yourself home" and went to pass out. =/

    farking awful.

    ----

    I think I was acting so weird because someone broke me off a bit of adderall in the club and I took that thinking it would just be like some coffee or some sh1t but instead it made me pretty weird.

    I was also feeling pressured because this girl is moving away for 4 months soon and I wanted to cement something nice that night for the future / when she is in town.

    To make sh1t worse, I didn't call her the next day, or the day after, or at ALL. She "accidentally re-texted" me on day 3 and I sent her some super sh1tty reply like "I had fun keeping you up all night, you're a cool girl, have a nice summer" which was supposed to be sarcastic/funny but was just so awful.

    Now it's been like a week.

    I don't know whether to call her up and actually *bring up* / atone for the above, or what. Is that too much explanation to dump on her / will it kill all attraction?

    Should I just sleep on this completely until she gets back to the area in 4 months?

    We had amazing (uncanny) chemistry the 3-4 times we had met before the date AND we had an amazing actual date, before the night time got farking strange.

    Halp?

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    Default Re: farked it up w/ a girl I finally had real chemistry with

    Quote Originally Posted by geshed View Post
    To make sh1t worse, I didn't call her the next day, or the day after, or at ALL. She "accidentally re-texted" me on day 3 and I sent her some super sh1tty reply like "I had fun keeping you up all night, you're a cool girl, have a nice summer" which was supposed to be sarcastic/funny but was just so awful.
    I rarely try be clever via text anymore with a girl because I think it's easy for them to misinterpret what I mean since they can't hear the tone of my voice. Now I mostly keep the clever jokes in moderation for in person and reserve texting for logistics like availability and setting up meetups.

    Sounds to me like you already know where you f@#$ed up. If I were you I'd keep it cool and move on by trying to setup something with her before she leaves while not making a big deal about that night's failures. If that doesn't work, play it cool and maybe try again when she gets back in four months.

    I've learned that sometimes chicks disappear after you blow it but often times (if you play it cool) they get over it and give you more chances afterwards (even though you may have to wait for that chance...weeks...mon ths...a year to pass).
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