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    Julietdelta is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    Hey, so I'm new to the game and forgive me this is a little long.

    History
    Met a girl online, wasn't long before she gave me her number to text her. After a total of 2 weeks she says she's going to be out my way and asks if I want to meet up. I kept it a mystery if I was going to make it until 2 days before. The plans were for me to come over after work and I would go out with her and her girlfriend. All that's fine and dandy.

    I meet up with the pm, girl and her friend (a hot mess on the regular...almost all day regular). Immediately introduce myself and give e "can't take her anywhere line".

    Bla bla bla they change and then another friend shows up, a guy. Not threatend.n he tried amogging but shortly after working him he thought we were best buds. I had my girl open and close all night. Her friends loved me, especially the hot mess. Ended up just being my girl and I at the bar where we talked for a while before heading back to the house.


    She was the girl who like being in charge, liked leading. But when we get home we sit down and talk. She's next to me. Has a blanket over her. I make my way under the blanket. She talks about how hairless she is, not the first time, and has me feel her legs. I put her legs on my lap to "keep me warm" and leave my hands on them, and do a light massage while we talk. I sent her to bed because that's where I was stuck at. From her bed she was still trying to talk to me. I was getting some good strong IOIs at the end of the night.

    Here's where it fell through.

    In the morning I said lets go to breakfast, I know a Great place around the corner. They shot that down for something else...after walking to 3 places we finally find one open. My girl seems shut off uninterested, quiet, like back to square 1..."hi, I'm JD...let me get a females opinion" not what I did but what I felt like I should do. I negged her to get her interested. She ended up leaving the mess and I at the diner so she could put change in her meter (which was legit, I checked it before we left because the parking tickets are plenty out there). Talking to her friend I learn some things.

    1) her alcoholic x bf (their words) wasn't a relationship that ended 6mo ago like she said, a few weeks go

    2) they lived together, yes, but not for a few years, they weren't together for a year.
    I feel those might both be IOIs (thoughts?)

    But then we talk, and the friend doesn't know why she is acting the way she is. I brush it off as shy and now I'm no longer just virtual words, I'm a person in her life.

    We went our ways and I get a message not too much longer after with an apology which I ignored, then a while later she strikes up a conversation again. And we're back to the playful banter on text.

    How do I move on with her?

    I was going to suggest a surfing lesson. I surf and she said she wanted to learn. But I'm stuck moving on in comfort. Suggestions? Please...

    Thanks from the newbie

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    Default Re: Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    Quote Originally Posted by Julietdelta View Post
    She was the girl who like being in charge, liked leading. But when we get home we sit down and talk. She's next to me. Has a blanket over her. I make my way under the blanket. She talks about how hairless she is, not the first time, and has me feel her legs. I put her legs on my lap to "keep me warm" and leave my hands on them, and do a light massage while we talk. I sent her to bed because that's where I was stuck at. From her bed she was still trying to talk to me. I was getting some good strong IOIs at the end of the night.
    Clear this up for me. While you were in bed together did you actually try and get laid? Did you even kiss her or was the light massage the highest the physical intimacy got that night?
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    Default Re: Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    No...i wish. Her friend was also there, on the bed, she and I on the couch. The massage was it. What I meant by leading was literally walking in front..everywhere!

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    Default Re: Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    I would have tried making out with her on the couch (or having sex there or somewhere private from the friend) and maybe even encouraging a threesome with the friend. Did all three of you stay the night in the same bed? Even though some chicks are kinky and are down with threesomes you've still got to be the man and make it happen. Courage and initiating the sex is the man's department. Most chicks are afraid to initiate sex until they know a guy well enough.
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    Default Re: Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    I slept on a couch, those two in the bed...it was a studio type apartment. If you could see the mess, you wouldn't have been into a 3 some either. She's still texting me plenty. So Im thinking surf lessons and then go out that night or inviting her to watch me sky dive with a friend/co worker who has been sick and just recently told he doesn't have long...it's on his bucket list. So threre are my next 2 moves I'm considering.

    She later said she wasn't in a good mood becuse hot mess fucked up their entire day and plans that night so she was irritated with her and wished she didn't have to baby sit her.

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    Default Re: Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    Yeah, next date try and get her to meetup without bringing her friends along. It should make escalating easier with the privacy of being alone together.

    Another thing: Don't feel compelled to make really interesting dates for every time you plan on meeting with a chick. Do fun things you want to do like surf lessons and skydiving because you want to do them and not because you're trying to convince some chick to spend time with you by trying to make yourself more interesting.

    In my opinion, if you can't get a girl to come over to your pad some dates just to watch a movie and maybe make something to eat then she's into the regular you.
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    Default Re: Sticking point for this newbie...can't move on

    Word. I'm the one that surfs regularly. It was just going to be a "hey I'm going if you want to tag along cool, I can teach you a little. I appreciate the advice


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