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    Boonze is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default First Post for and OLD PUA - HELP ME PLEASE!!!

    K, this is tough to write...I'm married 35 with kids, used to game back in college & haven't given it a thought in the past 15 years of marriage, met a buddys girl who caught my eye, so I started in with a lil kino & push/pull....built my attraction and worth and then got drunk at his crib & hit the F-close....but that wasnt enough for my dumb a&&....worked late one night & hit her house for more F-fun!!! all this in a weeks time....yesterday we were chatting and I typed some stupid stuff into the puter & she thinks I'm gaming more than her & hasnt hit me up since. I did try to tell her I wasnt talkin to noone else but didnt apolagize as I AM AN ALPHA...But at this point I realized I made a BIG mistake and dont want to lose my marriage/life over it. She said she would take this shiz to the grave but who knows.....99% of my game has been over text which made things diifficult..shes about 24 with tatoos & wild out crazy chick...think I need to worry ? should I end it and how ? Should I let things lay ? What do I do.......I'm in a pickle guys & I have only my PUA brothers to turn to. Haven't slept, eaten in weeks...She knows my wife & best friend ! HELP!!!

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    meteora is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: First Post for and OLD PUA - HELP ME PLEASE!!!

    look, you need to calm down!! everything will be ok, first you need to stop cheating on your wife before she reads some of those texts, then you need to cut your ties with the woman you had the affair with and anyone else who knows about it, then you just need to keep cool and stick to your wife and not let this happen again.

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    topgunningit is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: First Post for and OLD PUA - HELP ME PLEASE!!!

    Seems as if you have no regrets on what you did. It appears you do but you are more afraid of losing out on something good which is your wife. For the young'n HB you been banging, you have to 'unattract' yourself from her. If you stop calling and getting in touch with her but she still pursues you just go for her pet peeves. If she hates when guys take a p1ss in her bathroom and not flush the toilet then do that, if she hates when you leave the toilet seat up then do that, if she hates when you call her 10 times a day then do that, your overall goal is to be so obnoxious she is embarrassed to be around/know you.
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    Default Re: First Post for and OLD PUA - HELP ME PLEASE!!!

    You're trying to tell me you've been out of the game for 15 years, but all of a sudden know about f-closing, being alpha, and building attraction and worth? 15 years ago we hardly had a community, let alone the terms that became common knowledge in 2005. All of this is premeditated; you've been here before. You're not an alpha. Not apologizing isn't alpha. A real man owns up to his faults.

    I feel sorry for your wife, even more for your kids. Grow up. Be the man she wants and the father they need. As for your situation, you dug your own grave. You can keep it a secret, but have fun letting it eat at you until your dying day. If you tell her the truth, expect her to leave you, because I sure as hell would.
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