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    cheebamaster is offline PUA in Training
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    Default She flaked...WTH?

    For those of you that know my situation made out w girl first night we met...took girl out on an aweomse date...made kino/kissed she was totally interested and into it...texted me after the date with approval seeking texts saying how much fun she had etc

    set up date 2 for 3 days later..she agreed and 4 hrs before the date I get this text

    ""i've been struggling with the thought of our date tonite and can't help but feel like i'm still too interested in someone else. You've been kind and I hate to stand you up but i've got to do what I feel is right"

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    topgunningit is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: She flaked...WTH?

    She was just testing the waters. You were her side guy until the main guy came back around. You have two course of action: Let her know its not a big deal and you both still have a solid relationship. However, will never try to hookup again. If she tries she will be pawn on your chess board.
    Second, you can say its not a big deal, wish her the best, and move on. If she has a friend thats a good place to move onto.

    Quote Originally Posted by cheebamaster View Post
    For those of you that know my situation made out w girl first night we met...took girl out on an aweomse date...made kino/kissed she was totally interested and into it...texted me after the date with approval seeking texts saying how much fun she had etc

    set up date 2 for 3 days later..she agreed and 4 hrs before the date I get this text

    ""i've been struggling with the thought of our date tonite and can't help but feel like i'm still too interested in someone else. You've been kind and I hate to stand you up but i've got to do what I feel is right"
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    cheebamaster is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: She flaked...WTH?

    thanks,

    I sent her the following "wow I must say I'm a bit surprised but i understand. I was really enjoying getting to know you and it's too bad our awesome interactions have to end. Until next time, adios mi amiga "

    I am legit surprised. Literally the day before she was sending approval seeking texts and laughing/making small talk and then wham

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    Default Re: She flaked...WTH?

    Top gun is right, you were just her side clutch in case things didn't work out with the other guy. I recommend playing it cool, and keeping down her number for the social circle.

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    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: She flaked...WTH?

    This is an awesome text to get from a woman. Most would just disappear with no explanation. And your response was great. Who knows what the future holds! Kudos.

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    cheebamaster is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: She flaked...WTH?

    Not an awesome text for me hahaha


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