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    Default Becoming that Alpha Male by Chet

    First, there are three area’s that everyone new to pick-up community should start with.
    · Body language – there are numerous articles that you can search that cover keeping shoulders back, chest out, and chin up. It is step one in developing confidence in oneself and becoming that alpha male.
    · Speaking and Breathing – Learn to speak slowly, from the gut is essential. So is breathing from your diaphragm.
    · Know what you value – This can be one of the most important and over-looked steps in the process, and I say is the number one thing you should always know. Take time to list the things you value from family, to your goals, and list the values you seek in a partner. Decide if those values are negotiable or non-negotiable, if you want children and a girl you meet doesn’t, don’t pursue a long-term relationship.

    Second, develop the leader within you. Women are submissive by nature, as men are role is to be decisive, to hold their hand while slightly walking ahead of them. Asking a woman out, then making her make the plans is a cardinal sin. Decide the plans, feel free to take her somewhere else later…but never apologize, leaders don’t apologize. Leaders do feel empathy for their mates, but later on that.


    Third, learn to build emotional connections with women. This is normally the hardest part, as it is not taught to men. There are numerous articles on listening, how to converse with women on this forum. From understanding how to qualify women properly, to getting to talk about what interest them, and being genuinely interested, wanting to learn about them than being focused on oneself. The end result is fruitful lasting relationships where women chase you, they want to be in your company and won’t go after status less males.

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    Default Re: Becoming that Alpha Male

    I agree about women being ssumbissive, but its funny how when u mention it to women they always are in denial.

    As far as being alpha it just depends on ur testosterene, idk if u can learn some tricks to fake it, so Ill be the muscled up guy that babes like bcos Im skinny and dont have upper body hair.

    [TheSitch, remember that PUAs respect women both in the way they talk about them and the way they act.]

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    Default Re: Becoming that Alpha Male

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSitch View Post
    I agree about women being ssumbissive, but its funny how when u mention it to women they always are in denial.

    As far as being alpha it just depends on ur testosterene, idk if u can learn some tricks to fake it, so Ill be the muscled up guy that babes like bcos Im skinny and dont have upper body hair.

    [TheSitch, remember that PUAs respect women both in the way they talk about them and the way they act.]
    You don't have to be a muscled guy to be good with women, but you do have to think muscled, so to say (act like a man).

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    Default Re: Becoming that Alpha Male

    Testosterene doesnt just make u muscled, also makes u hairier, hornier, have less social anxiety, basically solves all the problems a lot of people facing when struggling with women. After u pop it babes will just sense u r an animal and will be subconsciously attracted to you.

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    Default Re: Becoming that Alpha Male by Chet

    I don't suggest testosterone therapy or anything of that nature. You can transform yourself with work into letting your natural Alpha Male out. Every man has it in them, but do to social conditioning it weakens over time. We all go through periods where events in our lives make us more vulnerable to being beta, but if we understand the difference its easy to be where we need to be and let it develop in long lasting relationships.

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    Default Re: Becoming that Alpha Male

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    You don't have to be a muscled guy to be good with women, but you do have to think muscled, so to say (act like a man).
    you're right Virgil, but it does help A LOT! i remember i was a skinny dude, and got no attention from girls (before hearing of game and PUA) after working out for a lot of months, i look way better than the average guy, and whenever i enter a club i see IOI's everywhere :P (it may be because i'm more confident in my body because i been working out) but if working out increases confidence its still good enough..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Becoming that Alpha Male

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    you're right Virgil, but it does help A LOT! i remember i was a skinny dude, and got no attention from girls (before hearing of game and PUA) after working out for a lot of months, i look way better than the average guy, and whenever i enter a club i see IOI's everywhere :P (it may be because i'm more confident in my body because i been working out) but if working out increases confidence its still good enough..
    I've worked out for six years and stopped recently. Girls really liked my body so I hope they'll still like me when I get skinnier.


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