First, there are three area’s that everyone new to pick-up community should start with.
· Body language – there are numerous articles that you can search that cover keeping shoulders back, chest out, and chin up. It is step one in developing confidence in oneself and becoming that alpha male.
· Speaking and Breathing – Learn to speak slowly, from the gut is essential. So is breathing from your diaphragm.
· Know what you value – This can be one of the most important and over-looked steps in the process, and I say is the number one thing you should always know. Take time to list the things you value from family, to your goals, and list the values you seek in a partner. Decide if those values are negotiable or non-negotiable, if you want children and a girl you meet doesn’t, don’t pursue a long-term relationship.
Second, develop the leader within you. Women are submissive by nature, as men are role is to be decisive, to hold their hand while slightly walking ahead of them. Asking a woman out, then making her make the plans is a cardinal sin. Decide the plans, feel free to take her somewhere else later…but never apologize, leaders don’t apologize. Leaders do feel empathy for their mates, but later on that.
Third, learn to build emotional connections with women. This is normally the hardest part, as it is not taught to men. There are numerous articles on listening, how to converse with women on this forum. From understanding how to qualify women properly, to getting to talk about what interest them, and being genuinely interested, wanting to learn about them than being focused on oneself. The end result is fruitful lasting relationships where women chase you, they want to be in your company and won’t go after status less males.