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    Default New to this, think i got it, but need some guidance

    Okay so I recently just tried to pick this up, I am naturally funny/sarcastic/charming so i am to see if in this routine I have captured the essence of protocol.

    Enter Bar
    Spot cute girl (have roughly a few seconds to approach)
    If she makes eye contact give SOME gesture turning it into a warm approach
    For the sake of this she doesn't see me and I am going in cold
    Open: Hey How's it going?
    Open continued -Go with a Story and ask advice
    Routine - Friends Jealous Ex g/f routine.
    Throw in a Negg about (hair, attitude, looks) *better looking the more negs*
    ->If i pick up on any cue's about her address her TRUTHS
    Try and ESP game , pick a number from 1-10
    Continue flirting/ talking while sharing a common interest (movies, career, school)
    Personal Storys - Bday hot sauce, accidental gay bar visit
    Qualify her with deeper questions
    What was your dream job as a kid?
    And what do you wanna do now?
    -Analyze this, jokes, negs,
    Continue building rapport
    - ask some questions that will signify her values
    if the rapport is high enough increase the physical component
    Then seal the deal - kiss close -number

    this the just of it?

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    Default Re: New to this, think i got it, but need some guidance

    i think you pretty well got it, though i recomend keeping it shorter, maybe throw in a ftc,make sure all your stories include dhv's, and be carefull with truths (if your too convinsing you could be seen as creepy) other than that it looks pretty solid keep up the good work.

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    Default Re: New to this, think i got it, but need some guidance

    Is this an interaction you have had or just rehearsing? If it is just rehearsing then you need to STOP, and just go out and do it. DON'T THINK!

    One of the biggest traps that happened to me was that I felt like I needed to be perfect before I actually went out and sarged. Big mistake my friend.

    Truth is you're going to screw up. No way around it. Especially if you have a whole script memorized. There are simply too many variables to consider and something will happen that you didn't expect and you will freeze....period.

    So if you have the routines and techniques downpat, then it's time to go out, try a few things, and just try not to get slapped lol. Trying to memorize everything will not work and you will have to develop game on the fly. This is where inner game comes in. Having the right mindset will help you more on the fly than any scripted routine.

    After your sarge is over THEN you can reflect and learn from your mistakes. This stuff literally could take months just to get a decent rhythm and even years to feel like you are an expert. So hopefully you aren't falling into the same trap I did. If you are then like I said, stop reading and stop thinking. And just go out, take a couple of techniques you want to try, and do it.

    P.S. A lot of people know about the jealous ex-gf opener so you run the risk of getting called out and freezing if you don't know what to do to recover.

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    Default Re: New to this, think i got it, but need some guidance

    Hey, I like it. I'm a big fan of having a routine, if you just so happen to need it. That being said like batman mentioned some of your material is dated. I use openers based on personal experience. Just think of girl drama that has happend in your life or to people you know and craft something. Girl drama = chick crack, use it and you will be fine.

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilies View Post
    Okay so I recently just tried to pick this up, I am naturally funny/sarcastic/charming so i am to see if in this routine I have captured the essence of protocol.

    Enter Bar
    Spot cute girl (have roughly a few seconds to approach)
    If she makes eye contact give SOME gesture turning it into a warm approach
    For the sake of this she doesn't see me and I am going in cold
    Open: Hey How's it going?
    Open continued -Go with a Story and ask advice
    Routine - Friends Jealous Ex g/f routine.
    Throw in a Negg about (hair, attitude, looks) *better looking the more negs*
    ->If i pick up on any cue's about her address her TRUTHS
    Try and ESP game , pick a number from 1-10
    Continue flirting/ talking while sharing a common interest (movies, career, school)
    Personal Storys - Bday hot sauce, accidental gay bar visit
    Qualify her with deeper questions
    What was your dream job as a kid?
    And what do you wanna do now?
    -Analyze this, jokes, negs,
    Continue building rapport
    - ask some questions that will signify her values
    if the rapport is high enough increase the physical component
    Then seal the deal - kiss close -number

    this the just of it?

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    Default Re: New to this, think i got it, but need some guidance

    thanks for the advice, yeah I plan on making my own opener / just use what ever I feel like talking about. I like have a set script, but thinking on my toes while deviating from the plan.

    I once just used a simple opener me and my friend where just debating, who do girls find more attractive Brad Pitt in his prime or Ryan gossling. Girls like talking about that shit.

    But i use a script to set a few things each night I am gonna use and just get a feel for what I like using best.


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