Hello fellow PUA's. Im not exactly sure where to begin and this may get a little long and boring. Im 23 yrs old, in university. I was well with socializing and women till highschool. I attended an all boys place which i didnt fit in and had a tough time with the other students and the end of it left me with a huge confidence problem. At the moment even having to talk to another random guy can get me tensed up. Thats my first problem. The second is i am the current leader of the oneitis club. Third, Also current leader of the 'good guy' club, seriously, ive been rejected and dumped aplenty with the reason being that im "just too nice a guy". Only recently have i started to understand what that meant. Im currently working on losing some weight and i know it will boost my self confidence a lot. Im also reading "The Game" which seems like a good book but im finding it wont help me solve the problems ive identified here.
Thats where im hoping you guys might come in. What books to read, videos, etc. My motive here is a bit higher than getting girls, because my problem goes beyond interacting with girls. I know the only way i can change is to begin with the mindset ive developed throughout the years. But i need help on where and how to being.
Sorry for the long post! Hope you guys can help (ask me anything youd like to know more about), and good luck with your endeavors too