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    Default Pandora's Box Help - Cold Reads

    Hey first off I got through the core system and can identify girls types and just refer to the Strategy guide. So now I have moved to Cold Reads section.

    I am having a bit of trouble understand wtf is going on in this part.

    So i understand what is going on in the direct/ indirect reads obviously

    then it gets into headline : Applying the Pandora’s Box Axes to Cold Reading

    which is essentially stating facts to use with different indicators Tester/investor etc.

    NOW it gets to reading to shape .. and I have NO clue what this is talking about trying to explain.

    US frame is pretty simple. use the word "US" - to create a bond

    then it loses me when It goes back to shaping again and more facts about the different types.

    Then the examples at the end - are they examples of what you will say to a girl?

    ex TJR

    "You’re funny…I bet you get a lot of attention for your body. But that’s not even half the story is it? I bet you have some stories. You look like you’ve traveled, or have stories…you’re ALMOST intimidating…if you weren’t so interesting. I bet you eat men up and now you’re spoiled. I think it’s cute."

    Not sure what this is suppose to be, combination of reads, truthes and negs?

    sorry for jumping all over, i am pretty confused lol

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    Default Re: Pandora's Box Help - Cold Reads

    Basically is making the girl see that you understand her. Cold reading is when you tell her about herself without having been told about in explicitly. Its very attractive for the girl to know that you understand her personality. In the advanced strategy guide for cold reading you get a cold read for each of her lines.
    Lets have a look at the playette cold read:
    (here you understand she is a tester and you show her that you are like her. with testers indirect cold reads work better, when you compare her to yourself instead of just saying that you like something about her) 1. There’s something about you that reminds me of myself. It’s like you don’t take people very seriously until they earn your trust. But at the same time you have fun. For me, I like to hang back and watch what people do, and decide who close I want to be with them. Most people let me down, so I’m definitely not trying to jump into anything serious when it comes to women.
    (as she is a denier here you try to get her sexual side. its a big deal for her and it has to be stimulated. again you compare her to yourself. with a justifier you would instead talk about how smart and cool she is, and not about sexuality)2. There’s something about you…I think you show it on accident sometimes. You have this inner sensitivity. When I touch you I can feel a soft warmth under your cool, hard shell. I have my walls too, because when I give myself to someone, it can be really scary. But at the same time I want to because that’s when I feel most complete.
    (You build a strong us frame showing her you are a team. Its "us against the world" works great on investors)3. I love it when you get silly on me. I wouldn’t take you seriously otherwise. Because I’m gonna need your help when I take over the world. I’m gonna need someone to give me back massages. Oh and lip massages. You have the world’s best kisses. I’ll make you the Secretary of Kisses. Just don’t go kissing everybody you crazy girl.
    Hope this helps
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    Default Re: Pandora's Box Help - Cold Reads

    Hey thanks Dennis it did,

    can you just clear the part of "SHAPING" in the advanced guide. What does shaping mean? or "Reading to shape"?

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    Default Re: Pandora's Box Help - Cold Reads

    Basically shaping means that you tell the girl about herself in the way you want her to behave. So for example if you want her to be more adventurous you can add to your coldread "i like how adventurous you are", and the girl will be motivated to be more adventurous in order to fit your coldread and not dissapoint. Of course it has to be something that alreadyfits her personality but you want to emphasize. So this way you shape her personality to the way you want her to behave, by emphasizing the things you like the most about it

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    Default Re: Pandora's Box Help - Cold Reads

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilies View Post
    Hey thanks Dennis it did,

    can you just clear the part of "SHAPING" in the advanced guide. What does shaping mean? or "Reading to shape"?
    hey mate did you find out what Pandoora Box Axes are and what they are talking about in there.


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