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    Default How do you pump yourself up??

    Ok guys,

    VERY strange situation that happened to me yesterday...

    I'll try and keep it short but if there is one thing you should know about me, it's that I am a wild child who thinks it's a sin to stay in on a Thursday, Friday or Saturday instead of going out to a bar/club...I'm a partier

    So, I had an early work day (6:30 AM) wake-up. Day went fine, constantly trying to get in state and was in a decent mood (6/7 out of 10)...I made plans to go out last night w/ some girls I met the night before (established social proof)...grabbed dinner, went for a run, etc. etc. I throw on a movie at like 8:30 and start pregaming by myself (ya, how lame is that hahah all my buddies went back to college)...at like 10:30 I pass the fark out!!! I wake up at 11:30 realizing I almost missed my opportunity but I was still SOOOOO tired, and like an a**hole, I go to sleep for the night!!

    1) I HONESTLY haven't stayed in on a friday for almost a year

    2) I'm upset w/ myself right now because I got so many texts from people last night saying the bar was awesome (would have had so much social proof)

    3) I'm also pissed at myself for allowing this to happen

    4) Not ALL is bad because I still have tonight but still...


    ANY advice you guys have for better ways to get in state, keep my energy going, & pump myself up alone?


    ALSO, a lot of you are reading this and probably saying, "this guy's a farking idiot, he should have just napped after work"...you're right HOWEVER, and from my own experience, when I nap that late in the day (6ish) it's typically a 50/50 chance of waking up groggy and killing my ENTIRE night.

    Thanks in advance for the advice guys!
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: How do you pump yourself up??

    Personally mate, never ever nap......always end up sleepy :/ and to hype yourself up make a point of the fact your going out, put some party music on and 'get ready' I know it sounds lame but take your time, stand in the mirror and pick out what your going to wear, try different ways of styling your hair to see what looks good, just make a point of getting ready and take your time, I always end up feeling more confident when I go out if I do this as well as being more in the mood for partying.

    Nothing is ever going to get you in the mood like a few drinks with your mates before you leave but if they ain't there I find this to be a decent way round it hope this helps,

    Linking x

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    Default Re: How do you pump yourself up??

    Lol...I mean I'm all for going out and everything but...honestly it is okay if you took 1 friday night out of an entire year to stay in. Just the fact that you go out the rest of the days and are usually ready to go means you're in the zone. Sometimes your body just needs a rest

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    Default Re: How do you pump yourself up??

    I agree with the CheebaMaster. There's nothing wrong with taking a night off and catching up on some rest. Most of the time I think you'll do all the better then next day.

    I feel like alot of approch anxiety and non-talkativeness comes from being physically tired, and while you can sometimes artificially inflate your mood up, theres nothing better than some good ol rest. For me it feels like night and day... if I'm tired I don't even feel like making attempts, but if I'm rested I'm golden.

    I do get that in your case it was an accident or what not, but hey nothing wrong with that. Maybe try having some of those girls meet over at your house to pregame? Or see where there pregaming? Also try not to drink waay to much especially if your by yourself.... it will almost always make you tired... and especially if your watching a movie!!!

    Idk what you listen to, but put on something that pumps you up like linking said. For me I like to listen to some THE GHOST INSIDE (if you like hardcore), nothing pumps me up more.

    Lyics from their song "test the limits" below. I think it applies great to these situations:

    No chance to be free. No chance to soar in the sky.
    Your feet fixed to the ground.
    Desperation is what's weighing you down.
    Whether my strength be heaven sent or my own self-confidence.
    These days when I'm walking through a crowd.
    I don't have to hold my head down.

    No more wasting time. Burn bright like a star, ignite.
    The limit's in the sky but will you be reaching it tonight?

    Tonight you got to test the limits and tell yourself that.
    "I'm alive!" Just make that choice and draw that line tonight.
    Tonight you got to test the limits and tell yourself that,
    "I'm alive, and I'm not going anywhere!"

    Rando

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    Default Re: How do you pump yourself up??

    I just visualize the hot girls I will meet when going out..and the sexual rewards I can get if I just open my mouth!


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