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Thread: How to manage your time while gaming.

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    Default How to manage your time while gaming.

    I couldn't find a good thread on this particular topic so I decided to write one up as I have a lot of "problems" in this...

    Often times I'll be at a bar and meet a group of nice girls...good for Social Proof...and I'll isolate one of them, run solid game, start hooking up...etc.

    Sounds great, right?? In some of my senario's it is, HOWEVER I am the type of guy that wants to continue my night after hooking up (kissing, not sex) with a girl and continue to meet and open other sets...the thing that kills me is...I'm too much of a "nice guy" when it comes to this because I often think to myself, "I really want to leave this set, but I am somewhat sexual involved with this one girl, if I leave they're all going to hate me/call me a player...blah blah blah".

    How do you guys deal w/ this? How do you manage to k-close one woman then continue to run the same game on other sets w/out feeling somewhat morally wrong?

    Thanks guys and let me know if I need to clarify anything!

    ALSO, please note before commenting - I hope you don't get the idea that I'm some huge "man-whore" who wants to fark multiple women in one night (though that would be great)...typically I just end up kissing one woman throughout the night and build up the idea in my mind that it's a "binding-contract" to be w/ her the rest of the night.
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: How to manage your time while gaming.

    Hey man, props on getting out there and hooking some sets...

    With that said, well u know that's not a bad problem to have, but I know what u mean, cuz I find myself there sometimes, and it calls for a remedy so ur game can move forward. Your suffering from a human condition called empathy

    Girls do that all the time, so don't feel bad. And if u meet one u truly like, ur game will naturally shift, I think its fair to say.

    One tip id suggest, is do more push/pull, hook/release, to keep urself open game. If u find yourself kissing a girl a bunch, and want to do more pickup, pull back more! You should be the first one doing that anyway.

    And if u can k close a girl in one set, move on anyways, don't feel too bad. Besides it will be a great jealousy plot if u have an hb10 at ur side, then some crazy chick comes screamin at ya! which can happen.

    Good luck bro and cheers

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    Default Re: How to manage your time while gaming.

    @Infrared...AWESOME Advice

    That's exactly what I am...I'm overly empathetic (couldn't think of the word when I was writing the thread)... I think I just get way to hard on myself and tonight I'm gonna try to keep the mindset of..."Rather be a d1ck than suffer an entire night w/ a girl you're not truly interested in"

    Another question I have is this:

    I was with a 3 set the other night and took a liking to one of the girls in it...I was able to successfully isolate her and hook up, which was awesome because it's a skill I didn't possess before the forums...I used Mystery's Kiss Close technique and failed at first...then somehow casually brought it up again and it worked like a charm! Here's where I started getting mad...a 4th friend comes into the mix once we meet up and now I'm WAY more interested in her and she's giving me IOI's...but I already am "involved" w/ her friend...what to do????


    Thanks again guys!!
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    Default Re: How to manage your time while gaming.

    Hey I totally know what you mean, I usually meet a bunch of chicks get there numbers and with about 15 minutes to close I find the one I want and then start trying to get intimate.

    Grab the number and leave while she is still interested. If she is passing by later in the night stick ur ass out and bump her. If you make eye contact with her stick ur tongue out, or i usually scrunch my nose up at them, like i am an angry tiger lol.. Basically acknowledge them and continue on with what you are doing.

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    Default Re: How to manage your time while gaming.

    Hey shoreguy, good to hear that. I took the words rite out huh? Lol.

    So I think u answered ur own question in ur last post, about the 4th girl that u liked even more. I'm guessing this is at a bar/club scene so girls are more frisky there, and if ur gamin good u can have ur selection, if attraction is there.

    Again, pull back, push down ur 'empathy' and go for wat u want. Try bouncing to another venue, get a wing to distract other girls, and isolate the other.

    Or if logistics aren't in ur favor, hold on kissing girls until ur sure which one u like, be more social overall, and find a time to hang out with them the next day, weekend or watever.

    Also creating tension with kino/hitting emotional triggers, will build up attraction more, until it counts.

    Keep it up and go get em


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