Alright guys, I hope you can help me out with this girl. I've liked her for a very long time but only recently did I work up the nerve to tell her how I feel. She shot my down right away. I've been told by her friends that she enjoys talking to me and I take that as a good sign but now we aren't even on speaking terms. I'm going to list the qualities that she has which I believe are my biggest obstacles. She is a distant person, she ignores her closest friends for weeks at a time. She is a power freak who is terrified of losing control and it's not a quality but should be noted, her family dislikes me. what can I do now?