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    animus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Unresponsive yet definitely interested HB

    Ok I had to make an account to ask you guys about this girl who is ridiculously confusing me. So yes, first post

    We used to be very close (about 6 weeks ago) and then she had to go overseas and arrived back about 2 weeks ago. Since then, every time we text or we call each other she is really distant and unresponsive (definitely gives off the vibe that she has no time for me). But in the last week I have seen her out twice and both times she has just lit up when she saw me, gave me hug/peck on the neck, insane amount of kino, eye contact, IOIs, but leaves after 20mins not to be heard of again for another few days. We organised a casual get together today, she agreed, and never turned up or texted/called about it.

    What the hell is going on?

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    Default Re: Unresponsive yet definitely interested HB

    How long have you known this girl and how did you meet her?
    http://projectmw.com/

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    animus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Unresponsive yet definitely interested HB

    Ah we knew OF each other for ages, but as soon as we met properly we became really close over about a month. If she hadn't gone overseas this would be a very different story.

    Also, next time I am talking to her, should I bring up that she blew me off (I guess make her feel like she owes me) or ignore it as though im unaffected (alpha that)?

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    Default Re: Unresponsive yet definitely interested HB

    Seems she is showing more IODs than IOIs. Try not to add weight to the IOI about her lighting up when she saw you and making it equal to the fact that she doesn't call or text you. Not even back. Left after only 20 mins of hanging out then disappearing and has flaked on you. She is not attracted my friend.

    Good news is you can increase your chances by working on your attraction game. And the added bonus that you bump into her occasionally is a big plus since you have a better chance doing attraction material in person vs text/phonecall.

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    animus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Unresponsive yet definitely interested HB

    Yeah, that seems pretty spot on now I can see it from an objective perspective. I am pretty sure I can step my game up from here. Thanks Batman.


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