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    Question How To Game A Bartender - Help Wanted

    Guys

    I've been hitting this club for a bit now and there is this Bartender, rasily a HB10+. She always gives me IOI's when my Tats are showing, but the thing is its a club so:

    1. its pressured work so she cant give the attention desired.
    2. it's loud as hell so preforming a conversation is hard.
    3. the other Female bartenders always get to me first and then she asked after.

    So i need advice, should i go to the club earlier to try catch a conversation, or go with the flow and see if she approaches me.

    They are also hired guns so i know you cant game them normally you have to use normal conversation and build report first. We'll that's worked with every other Hired gun I've Dated.

    I may get my wing to make her more curious since he knows a lot of the security guards and bartenders.

    Does anybody have any unique ideas on how to Pull her.

    Regards Tyrone
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Bartender - Wanted

    That's rough. Ask Kino maybe? I think he'd know best out of any guy on here.
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    Default Re: Bartender - Wanted

    I May do that aye, its like the ultimate challenge.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Bartender - Wanted

    Oh sorry guys i forgot the best part: The Discription

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Bartender - Wanted

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Guys

    I've been hitting this club for abit now and there is this Bartender, Eaasly a HB10+. She always gives me IOI's when my Tats are showing, but the thing is its a club so:

    1. its pressured work so she cant give the attention desired.
    2. it's loud as hell so preforming a conversation is hard.
    3. the other Female bartenders always get to me first and then she asked after.

    So i need advice, should i goto the club earleir to try catch a conversation, or go with the flow and see if she approaches me.

    They are also hired guns so i know you cant game them normally you have to use normal conversation and build report first. We'll thats worked with every other Hired gun I've Dated.

    I may get my wing to make her more curious since he knows alot of the security guards and bartenders.

    Does anybody have any unique ideas on how to Pull her.

    Regards Tyrone
    What do u need my help for u know what to do, u just said it:
    -Build social proof: befriend the security and the other bartenders don't give her much attention
    -After 3 nights of that go early to the club and talk to her
    thats if she doesn't find a way to talk to u first.
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    Default Re: How To Game A Bartender - Help Wanted

    thank you man, i'll do that but social proof will take some time, i've allready built it with one of the security guards, i'll focus on that.

    the down point, is i may look like a bumb if im always there knowing every one, but i'll try it aye.

    Mabie i'll focus on just a few she seems to joke with at the bar.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How To Game A Bartender - Help Wanted

    Ya man I definitely agree with gaining Social Proof first, even though she's already given u IOI's.

    If your a regular, well even if your not, sure it's fine to go in early and try to hook her in then. I've found two easy tricks to get a bartender chick going:

    1.) Just ask, what do you do when your not servin drinks here? It slightly lowers her value at first, as 'just a bartender', but also shows that you're generally interested, and during that your just being a people person as well. This can spark a whole bunch of convo, if u have anything in common.

    2.) Find something funny on your phone to entertain her with, preferably something interactive. Like a mood scanner app, funny voice tones, etc.

    This has worked for me well with bartenders.

    And ya, dont focus on her the whole time, engage with whoever is around, to stitch yourself into the social framework there.

    Hope that helps, cheers

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    Default Re: How To Game A Bartender - Help Wanted

    i need to trust my own game more hey?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How To Game A Bartender - Help Wanted

    I like Point 1, i think using my personality to entertain would be better then a phone. But thank you anyway, I'll develop a field report and add it.

    I got a friend (wing woman) coming for dinner on friday, i'll talk to the staff that serve us there. also if she working it should show being with a girl proof, because i just usually go with the boys.

    Thanks guys, still waiting for Kino to respond
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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