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    Question Need help approaching in clubs

    Okay, so yesterday my friend and I were at this party. It was in a small place, crowded, hot and loud and more than that everybody there seemed to know each other. I literaly had to scream to hear my own voice. I tried picking up a few girls but the music was too loud they couldn't hear me. Now I'm not a big fan of clubs, I feel way out of my Comfort zone, I can't act as if I'm enjoying myself for too long. We ended up taking a cab after an hour and a half of deafening music.

    Am I doing anything wrong please tell me? Is this just a bad place to go to? I feel like compared to daygame which I practiced alot and feel very comfortable with, its like walking on hot coals. How can I improve myself for next time?

    Help is desperately needed :/

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    Default Re: Need help approaching in clubs

    to me club game is the best.. the only option is to get kino fast.. with dancing with her.. or else tell her to go somewhere a bit more quiet

    in clubs though you need to remember, social proof, DHV, being the AMOG
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    Question Re: Need help approaching in clubs

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    to me club game is the best.. the only option is to get kino fast.. with dancing with her.. or else tell her to go somewhere a bit more quiet

    in clubs though you need to remember, social proof, DHV, being the AMOG
    Thats exactly my problem, by dancing with a girl I feel like im telegraphing interest too fast and thats not how i roll. clubs dont suit my frame or my personality, i feel like i dont belong in clubs, is there anyway to overcome this?
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    Default Re: Need help approaching in clubs

    oh i get it.. sorry for not understanding immediately haha ;/

    hmm well you can always open her with a NEG so you are not showing that much interest immediately.. she will try to make you attracted to her (like most other guys), so she chases you, and she will start kino with you(dancing)..

    in the clubs there is a part where you can 'dance'.. and then there is usually a relaxed part near the bar where people are buying drinks etc.. you can open a girl there (its a bit more quiet than near the speakers of the dancefloor) without showing too much interest.. (use situational openers or a funny one)

    hope i figured out your question right this time haha
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    Default Re: Need help approaching in clubs

    One last thing, yesterday the music was so loud i literally couldnt talk. what do i do then?
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    Default Re: Need help approaching in clubs

    well you can change venues? or approach her by talking close to her ear (but it might show a little neediness.. ) or else, get her attention and talk without her listening (she might come in closer and lean in to hear what you saying.. than talk in her ear)..

    flirting is another good option and than use a single liner like
    you : 'you know you can't do that' (near her ear)
    she: 'what'
    you : 'look at me and not talk '
    than get a bit kino immediately since she was flirting with you..

    remember though.. that in clubs its little chat and more body language, social proof, DHV, and KINO... so only chat a little as part of the approach..

    use Suave Kino's Club Game (really use it.. hes a master pua, knows what hes talking about)
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