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    DonJuan69 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with girl I met at a party - don't want to fall back to AFC ways!

    So backstory - went to a friend of friend's party the other night. Met a few girls and #-closed 3. There was one in particular though, quite playful 8/10. Took quite a bit of work but ended up finally getting her and going back to her friends place with her. We would have had sex, but for a particular reason (don't want to mention here), sex wasn't going to happen. Ended up sleeping with her, heavy kissing etc.. and talking with her for hours (some pretty deep conversations). No sex though. Had to leave fairy early next morning (appointment I had), so we quickly kissed and said bye.

    I currently live in a different city to her but moving there in a couple of weeks, visiting next week in the meantime a few times.

    Text her in the evening afterwards, along the lines of "just made appt, enjoyed last night, and a jokey question referencing something that had happened". She took a couple of hours to text back and basically said was a good night, and replied to my jokey question. I waited an hour then went back with a little joke along the same lines, but a statement not a question.

    She hasn't replied and I don't want to fall back into my old-AFC ways by texting back yet. My text game is ok with most girls now, bit different with this one as she's got a really original personality not just good looks.

    What should I do now? Give it a day and send a new text? Basically want to meet up with her when I'm around this week, but can't build much text rapport. Should I just ask the question?

    With hindsight, probably should have just called rather than texting. Sorry I haven't posted the actual conversations, always a bit cautious online.

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    don pimpin sheezy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need help with girl I met at a party - don't want to fall back to AFC w

    I used to try and be funny via text all the time with girls I was interested in but really I think it was me being needy and trying to see how many positive responses I could get.

    Now I try to keep the humor for in person and in moderation. I would put your energy into trying to setup another meetup. A wise man once told me that action is more interesting to women then words. Try to make that second date happen.
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    Default Re: Need help with girl I met at a party - don't want to fall back to AFC w

    okay, so she was on her rag .. 1/4 chance, pretty shitty odds lol

    So you're out of the city, i would just leave it be if she doesn't msg back until you are in the city, and then message her and try and schedule a meet up right away.

    I've not message girls all summer, and once university starts back up and we are in the same city .. its game on. you'll be okay. just dont turn AFC


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