Wassup, I met this girl online awhile back, and we went on a date like 2 or 3 weeks ago. Been stayin in touch, schedules have just taken us away, but still talkin.
We went on that boring, typical face to face dinner date one night, because I couldn't think of much better on a Tues nite, but she dropped her plans to go out with me
No k close though, but i kissed her neck when we hugged, seemed kinda awkward actually but I didn't care lol.
While my game needs some work, sometimes I think the PUA styles have almost been embedded in my nature a little more now... because honestly, I don't know why this girl and I are still in contact!
First of all, she's 38, and I'm 28. Yep, ten years difference. When we first met, she even said I looked younger than she thought, and later said her younger brother is about my age, haha. I shrugged it off, but kind of thought maybe this was a MISMATCH, no holds barred.
But, maybe opposites attract: She's well adjusted, drives a nice car, works a good job doing something with insurance, and lives in the suburbs. She hikes. She does Yoga.
She's kind of like a New age soccer mom, but without the kids.
She keeps asking me when I'm going to get my car fixed- I whine and say I'm gonna do it soon... just to mess with her I really wish she would stop bugging me about it though, because it's just not important to me, and it is going to get fixed anyways.
I'm a 'city-boy' so I don't really need a car, and my place is convenient to everything. I take the train to work. I have a pretty good, 'real' type of job, but besides that, I'm kind of a punk haha. I take care of the duties ya know.. but I'm not that active besides going golfing, to bars/concerts, and some music/art hobbies on the side. I just feel that we don't have much in common, but our conversation is pretty good, I make her laugh, tease her, and am far from needy. I almost stopped talking to her altogether, but about a week or so later, I reinitiated.
Well that's the scoop, I don't wanna rant for to long. We're going on a date later I guess, I led her to meet me on this art district type of place in town.
I just want to hit it off, and have more interaction, kino, without it being too typical, so I can be more natural with a K close.
I think I'm going to use the Mystery technique, of the 3 questions. I've used it before, so it's pretty reliable when u know how and when to use it. But I want to K close early too,
not just at the end of the night.
Wat ya'll think? I'm not sure where this is going haha. Maybe I just needed to vent, but any tips I'd appreciate! Thanks