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    Smile How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    Ive been texting with this girl for about a couple weeks. Shes already told me things like "you make me smile" and she even asked me to send her a picture of me. I told her that I was gonna go shopping for a friend of mine for his bday and get him a shirt cuz he still wears his middle school clothes and told her she should tag along help me pick something out. We decided on Sunday and to maybe go bowling afterwards and this morning i sent her a "get excited for tonight nerdball" and she responded with what time again and then after I told her she texted me back " My family is having a cookout to celebrate my grandparent anniversary tonight and so I dont think ill be able to go " a few hours later i shot back with "just got my buddy a blue v neck shirt hope it works & no worries just dont leave the meat on the fire too long we dont want any accidents!"

    How should I continue when I text her again and any advice on reducing yet another flakey response on a future meet up? Seems like shes into me and she even says to visit her at work (which I usually tell her I cant make it) but then she flakes so how can this be salvaged and any advice on preventing future flakes?

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    Seems you got the cocky part working. Might have come off a bit needy to her, but might not. A good reply may work, but I think somewhere in the process from initial open to setting up d2 is not working causing the flaking.

    I do find from my experience text messaging for a couple weeks after first meeting will lead to a lot of flakes, as you have to start all over with attraction as it has faded.

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    how do you ask her out?

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    firstly, if she's into you she would not flake.

    secondly, she is putting you in the friend zone/nice guy catagory and i can see it in what you're writing above

    thirdly, you are not being an alpha male, but you cant just jump in like that, you have to subtly do it so she doesnt pick up on it, then once the attraction is re built or just built. You tell her when and where she is meeting you, not ask her, if she is busy then you TELL her again with another time.

    then you do not message her until the night before with just a confirmation. Trust me the last few girls ive talked to have taken huge notice in the alpha i use in them and most times they have intiated kino, because of my "dont give a fark attitude towards them"

    Try it and see how that works bro

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    Hey no big deal here I'd say bro, something came up that she didn't really plan I bet.. family things aren't always something people wanna do right away, but she went and probably felt better about it.
    I wouldn't necessarily call this a flake man, maybe a fluke?

    So catch up with her in a few days or so, and shrug that off- it's nothin bro.

    It's ok to reinitiate convo, but better if she does. Even better she should be takin a rain check here and soon ask if u want to make other plans.
    You're the man, if she ain't into you it won't take long to tell. But I'd say u still got this one in ur favor, just don't get needy for a date, keep her following you a bit now and take off from that

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    I pretty much opened her with "hey sugar buns(nickname) just got back from museum watching and pool swimming i could totally use one of your back massages right now. How was you crazy day? " I was out of town for a few days and she was aware of this.

    She replied favorably " haha aww sounds like a fun day! ( described what she did that day) I'll give you one, come here! lol"

    Then after some banter I said " So my buddys bday is coming up and he still wears the same clothes from middle school! I want to get him a shirt & can ttally use a girls eye so you can help me shop this saturday or sunday" i gave her a choice between 2 days to pick from.

    Her: "haha sure! sunday it is!"

    idk but to me it sounds like shes into me and didnt hesitate and she even went along with the whole massage text so what do you guys think is going on?

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    Oh btw then afterwards I told her Lets shoot for 4:28pm to set a time and she totally agreed and enjoyed the whole odd time I gave her.

    Tyrone you said that you can tell from what I was writing above that shes putting me in the friends zone? exactly what part are you referring to?

    Also, what did you mean by you cant just jump in like that?

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    in general, what you described in what you wrote to her was way to friendly and her response almost seemed polite. when you have been the nice guy you cant jump straight into alpha, you have to build it up so it Creeps(australian Expression) on her

    Your text are heaps long too
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    sorry tyrone a bit lost..maybe you could give me an example on what I said was too friendly and that i went from nice guy to alpha right away? That way I can understand the concept you re trying to project

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    Default Re: How to reply to a girl who seems into you yet flakes the day of??

    It seems from what I see shes just bending you...an your reacting the way she expects you to react. First off dont ask her to "tag" along theres nothing exciting sounding about that it just makes her think shes gonna be folloiwing behind you while you pick your buddies shirt. when your trying to get her to meet up up say exactly that "meet up". Example. Im going to have THE most challenging but exciting time today, planning on hitting up the mall to get my buddy some bada** v neck shirts and afterwards hittng up the bowling alley to of course crush the competiton and lucky for you troublemakers are welcomed so meet up with me if you want thats what ill be doing...just an example this can be critiqued im sure. now when she makes a comparison to a lame exscuse she wants to use vs that, she more then likely is going to be more considerate of the "meet up" you put out there. thats my 2 cents.


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