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Thread: Texting with Girl (My Crush) Fading? Advice Wanted!

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    Default Texting with Girl (My Crush) Fading? Advice Wanted!

    Quick Summary,

    Girl I've like all summer, we went on a date and kissed at the end. I left the next day to go out of town for 2 weeks (which is shitty timing but I had to), soo I messaged her lightly the days after (every other day or so) and they went well. This past Friday I text her while we were both out and she was really short with me... So I decided to send her a ping today that cracked me up but BEFORE I sent it to her, I sent it to 3 girls that I keep in touch with. They ALL laughed and thought it was funny, her on the other hand was short with me again.

    She IS currently doing Rush Week for her Sorority but what gives? Any advice on how to handle this? Should I wait till I return back to text her? I work with her next Monday, but I'd like to go into work on a positive note with her.

    Thanks All, this is the first girl I've gamed and actually had a really big crush on so I'd like to get things back to normal asap.

    Cheers.

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    Default Re: Texting with Girl (My Crush) Fading? Advice Wanted!

    Honesty bro I see two ways you could go with this. Option A: This is going to be hard for you since your really like her, but I think it's the best way to go. You stop talking to her until you see her on monday. Just have fun with your life, and maybe post some picture on facebook with you and other girls, and then on monday you can flirt with her hard, and see how she responds from there. Option B: This is where you wait to talk to her a little bit, and then call her one of these nights and propose to hang out. Then if you do hang out in person again see how she reacts to you, and if she doesn't want to hang out then well further investigation is needed. Women are busy people man just like you and me. I would just wait it out and see how the situation goes.

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    Default Re: Texting with Girl (My Crush) Fading? Advice Wanted!

    Hey don't message her, pretend like you do not care. Remember you are the prize. If you go chasing her its not fun. She needs to chase. I would not message her and try and push the envelope in person at work... if she responds to verbal flirting work in some keno. But stop texting her, especially if you are away...

    Maybe if you leave it, and she see's you (MAKE SURE YOU ARE HAPPY AND SMILING, like you are unaffected by her standoffish attitude) it will bring back some feelings. FLirt with other chicks at work too when you get back, a bit of jealousy works wonders.

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    If you are obsessing over a girl is because you are not getting busy with other girls. That could develop into full blown "onenitis". The best way to attract a girl is by having other girls in your life, that way you will not appear needy and clingy. When you have abundance in your life, girls will find that attractive!

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    Default Re: Texting with Girl (My Crush) Fading? Advice Wanted!

    Quote Originally Posted by Link777 View Post
    Honesty bro I see two ways you could go with this. Option A: This is going to be hard for you since your really like her, but I think it's the best way to go. You stop talking to her until you see her on monday. Just have fun with your life, and maybe post some picture on facebook with you and other girls, and then on monday you can flirt with her hard, and see how she responds from there. Option B: This is where you wait to talk to her a little bit, and then call her one of these nights and propose to hang out. Then if you do hang out in person again see how she reacts to you, and if she doesn't want to hang out then well further investigation is needed. Women are busy people man just like you and me. I would just wait it out and see how the situation goes.
    Yeah, Option A is definitely my best bet seeing that I won't be back into town in 3-4 days. Therefore it'd be tough to get her to hangout through a call when we will both be busy and it looks like banter texting isn't working while I'm away.

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilies View Post
    Hey don't message her, pretend like you do not care. Remember you are the prize. If you go chasing her its not fun. She needs to chase. I would not message her and try and push the envelope in person at work... if she responds to verbal flirting work in some keno. But stop texting her, especially if you are away...

    Maybe if you leave it, and she see's you (MAKE SURE YOU ARE HAPPY AND SMILING, like you are unaffected by her standoffish attitude) it will bring back some feelings. FLirt with other chicks at work too when you get back, a bit of jealousy works wonders.
    Solid Advice! There's a few girls at my work who are interested in me and I flirt with all the time so that'll work perfectly.

    Quote Originally Posted by Conquistador82 View Post
    If you are obsessing over a girl is because you are not getting busy with other girls. That could develop into full blown "onenitis". The best way to attract a girl is by having other girls in your life, that way you will not appear needy and clingy. When you have abundance in your life, girls will find that attractive!
    I agree. In this past month alone I've gotten with 3-4 girls but I started noticing that I really feel attracted to her and these hookups/XXX were fun yet superficial.

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    SOO from what I've gathered I'll steer clear of the text game till I return and flirt it up with her a bit a work. If I act unfazed, it'll bring some of our attraction back to normal (which was killer when I was around her).

    My Question is.... How should I split my flirting up between her and the other girls? I don't want to flirt JUST with her or go overboard flirting with the other girls and make it look like I'm doing it purposely to make her jealous.

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    She works in the same room as me but sometimes it's not possible to go over and talk to her soo should I message her over our work Instant Messenger? We used to have fun flirty convos on there but it may resemble text messages and get shutdown/ignored.... Or it could work wonders again lol.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Texting with Girl (My Crush) Fading? Advice Wanted!

    Update: First day back at work, I didn't her very much at all as because our seating arrangement has changed, but I did message her for a bit. She seemed receptive and helped me out a bit via email seeing as it was my first day at my position however I noticed she was pretty shy.

    What are your thoughts and which approach should I take?

    Wednesday is my next day at work and I sit a bit closer to her this time, but on Mondays and Fridays we aren't very close to each other. Sooo I gotta maximize my time this coming Wednesday lol.

    Thanks!


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