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    Smile How to game with LOUD music

    So...

    Went out on Friday , learnt my material got into the correct state of mind....and when I got to the club the music was really , really loud.

    Now I know what you guys are thinking ; :who is this douchebag , has he NOT gone to a club before?? OFCOURSE its loud)

    I have...but never for the sole purpose of sarging....so...I had no idea what to do.

    There where so many sets to approach yet I couldn't even hear my buddy who was basically shouting into my ear....how am I going to coolly and calmly display dhv''s , qualify her , make her feel comfortable when I cant even speak/listen to the guy next to me?

    Im sure you guys deal with this every-time you go out , but how?

    Leaning in is a form of DLV isnt it? Also leaning in to start and hold a conversation...there goes body rocking , ftc's etc.....

    Simply my question is, how do you game when the music is so loud that it is an absolute effort to make yourself heard.

    How can you game smoothly doing this (id imagine hollering into a beautiful women's ear isnt the easiest thing to look good doing)

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    Default Re: How to game with LOUD music

    You just need a different kind of game my friend. I have extensive experience in loud clubs so allow me.

    I don't conversate in clubs. I use "sound bites." Just simple one sentence statements or questions. Don't hover in her ear for 5min. Woman go to clubs to dance and forget things (and get the attention from men). But mostly to dance. So use dancing to your advantage. You can build attraction simply with your body language and sound bites. That's all you need....plus a couple of dance moves lol.

    Trust me I am not the best dancer. Its more important to show confidence and deliberation in your moves.

    Now to have a REAL conversation then find the quiet part. Like out front or deck of the smoking area. Maybe another part of the bar. Take her to a quiet place after you attract her then you can talk.

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    Default Re: How to game with LOUD music

    suave kino has a thread on that. search for it
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: How to game with LOUD music

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    You just need a different kind of game my friend. I have extensive experience in loud clubs so allow me.

    I don't conversate in clubs. I use "sound bites." Just simple one sentence statements or questions. Don't hover in her ear for 5min. Woman go to clubs to dance and forget things (and get the attention from men). But mostly to dance. So use dancing to your advantage. You can build attraction simply with your body language and sound bites. That's all you need....plus a couple of dance moves lol.

    Trust me I am not the best dancer. Its more important to show confidence and deliberation in your moves.

    Now to have a REAL conversation then find the quiet part. Like out front or deck of the smoking area. Maybe another part of the bar. Take her to a quiet place after you attract her then you can talk.
    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    suave kino has a thread on that. search for it
    Thanks for the advice guys....thats what I had assumed as well.

    Except that im not the best at dancing , and didnt want to be one of those creepy guys that hovers around a women gyrating his hips creepily.

    I guess it comes down to the same question...a girl isnt going to let you dance with her until you build some kind of attraction or rapport....so there still has to be an opener.

    Dancing as an opener is enough?

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    Default Re: How to game with LOUD music

    you can do another thing.. just dance like no1 is watching.. literally have fun with your friends.. don't look at girls for some time.. increase social proof, DHV

    girls would begin to give you IOI's, (which means shes attracted to you.. so skip attraction phase) and just make a small approach.. or start dancing with her (if the IOI is touching you while she dances) and start using KINO .. in no time you will be making out or number close (your choice)
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: How to game with LOUD music

    All the advice above is solid.

    Hands down the BEST way to attract a woman at a club with loud music is to have a blast and carry yourself around confidently like you own the place. Rock to the music and smile, trust me girls will notice. When you catch eyes with a cute/hot girl, smile back and either point or wave. It's all about body language my dude. I find that if I'm close by, extending my hand out to her to dance works like a charm.

    And as far as not being a good dancer goes, just mirror the moves of some people dancing around you and you'll be straight. Over time you'll become a natural and fluid dancer and be able to hold your own.

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: How to game with LOUD music

    Clubs with loud music are AWESOME because they give you a strong advantage: A DAMN GOOD REASON TO KINO! Approach with confidence, like you have something SUPER IMPORTANT to tell her. Make strong eye contact before you speak ~ if she pecks, SHE WANTS to hear you. Speak close, next to her ear so that her earlobes vibrate with every word you speak. Put your hand on her back/shoulder/neck while you're pulling her in to speak. kinokinokino!


    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I don't conversate in clubs. I use "sound bites." Just simple one sentence statements or questions. Don't hover in her ear for 5min. Woman go to clubs to dance and forget things (and get the attention from men). But mostly to dance. So use dancing to your advantage. You can build attraction simply with your body language and sound bites. That's all you need....plus a couple of dance moves lol.

    Trust me I am not the best dancer. Its more important to show confidence and deliberation in your moves.
    Confidence is everything on the dancefloor ~ You don't NEED to know how to dance, you just NEED to have a GOOD TIME. It's also a good thing to know a few one-liners, but be natural. When you're speaking to them, make sure that you're using simple 'barney' words and NOT words that can be confusing. Also speak clearly(enunciate) and DO NOT slurr your words.

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Now to have a REAL conversation then find the quiet part. Like out front or deck of the smoking area. Maybe another part of the bar. Take her to a quiet place after you attract her then you can talk.
    I-SO-LATE. Best thing you can do because EVERYONE takes breaks from dancing and goes outside to just chill. Be her knight in shining armor that sweeps her off the dancefloor and into a more chill place where she can relax ~ but don't plan on staying out there too long. GIRLS GOTTA DANCE!

    Quote Originally Posted by tripsteady View Post
    I guess it comes down to the same question...a girl isnt going to let you dance with her until you build some kind of attraction or rapport....so there still has to be an opener.

    Dancing as an opener is enough?
    Dancing is DEFINITELY a great opener ~ I do it all the time. It's also a great way to get yourself 'in-state.' If you're going to a club, go there to HAVE FUN! Seeing someone having FUN is the MOST attractive thing to women, because when they see you having fun they want to have fun TOO!

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    you can do another thing.. just dance like no1 is watching.. literally have fun with your friends.. don't look at girls for some time.. increase social proof, DHV

    girls would begin to give you IOI's, (which means shes attracted to you.. so skip attraction phase) and just make a small approach.. or start dancing with her (if the IOI is touching you while she dances) and start using KINO .. in no time you will be making out or number close (your choice)
    Yeah, totally ~ dancing is a great way to see who are HOT and who are COLD. Being able to spot that will give you the advantage when you decide to approach because you will know how to handle it (direct/indirect).

    Quote Originally Posted by Alpha Adonis View Post
    All the advice above is solid.
    And as far as not being a good dancer goes, just mirror the moves of some people dancing around you and you'll be straight. Over time you'll become a natural and fluid dancer and be able to hold your own.

    Best of luck!
    MIRROR your targets' dance moves and make sure THEY SEE IT! It's a great way to open any set ~ especially if you make it look funny. One thing I see most on the dancefloor are women who 1)brush their hair back and 2)fan themselves with their hands. When I see that I move in to the set and mirror them but making it look funny ~ you'll not only capture your targets' attention, but also diffuse your obstacles a bit. If they give you crazy looks and start moving away, it doesn't matter because YOU are having FUN.... BUT PERSIST! That's just their way of weeding out the creepy people on the dancefloor. That's where you're different ~ you're there to pick them up, so go in for the kill. ALWAYS look for the challenges.... ATTACK THE CHALLENGES!

    Hope this helps
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