Hey, so I'm trying to decide whether to go to Eugene to hang out with this girl for a night. We met three years ago when I played a show with my old band. We hung out for a little while, but eventually parted ways.
Anyway, she passed through my town last week and we went out for coffee. There was solid chemistry... she gave me that longing look when she had to leave, had an extended hug etc...
Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime next week; I'd come into her town and crash for a night. She said she was "confused" and didn't know what to do with "us" at the time - obviously she was feeling something.
She finally texted me this afternoon and said she wanted me to come out but just as friends. I'd previously told her that I could crash at a friends house if she was too paranoid for me to crash there (in a teasing way) and she said she'd be impressed if we could sleep in the same bed and nothing'd happen, though history tends to repeat itself.
Anyway, should I go? Or no? Is this a sh1t test? I don't wanna get all the way to Eugene and not be able to fark this girl, however, we have solid chemistry, and I feel like my day 2 game is very solid.