WHere to start!!
Not sure if you all have read my previous posts. BUt I talk about a girl I'm interested in. Ive hung out with her a couple times. Got her in my bed once, fingered her but didn't fuck her cause i was wasted and had a buddy 5 feet away on a couch. haha. We are both in a weekly class together, so Im going to see her at least once a week. Anyways, here's my PROBLEM. I like her. Im not having one-itis cause I am having sex with a blonde hb 8.5 at the moment, but I can't get this girl out of my head. I hold an alpha frame, and get DHV'd a lot cause I standout in class. Im the best student there, EASILY!
The thing with her is that she becomes distant after we get comfortable together. ex: The first time we hangout when I first met her we hooked up a little, and then the next week she barley made eye contact with me. The week after she barley started talking to me again etc etc... I obviously didn't care back then and left her alone til she reached out. Same thing happened when I got her to my place 3 weeks ago. We had a good time, fingered her bah blah, and we both passed out cuddling. She then doesn't show up to class for 2 weeks!! and is a little distant. Yesterday I call her up and we have a drink before class at a bar(ps. I never call or txt her ever!! only to arrange meet ups to hang out), have great conversation, I kino, make jokes etc... After class, our whole class goes to a bar and drinks. She basically sat at the bar with a classmate/buddy of mine(great looking dude) , and had a 1 1/2 hour convo with him... After she comes outside where the rest of us were and sits on another guy classmates lap. She always does this cause she's an attention whore and whatever, and I never react. BUt when I went outside, she was sitting in my chair. I told her to get off and go sit on the other guys lap again cause that was my chair!!(I don't think I came off as being pissed off at all, maybe just a little passive aggressive, but I did it with a smile on my face). I know she is attracted to other guys, as am I with other girls, but she can actually fuck them whenever she wants. This chicks super sexual and maybe a tease.
SO, when she was leaving I walked her to her car, but realized I can't do this mr. nice guy thing after she talked to another guy for over an hour. So when we got to her car I threw her on her hood(playfully) and slapped her butt.. She said something like, "what are you trying to rape me or something" I laughed it off and said you suck and was walking away, but then LIKE AN IDIOT, asked her for a little hug!!!! FUCK!! so BETA of me. MIdhug I realized this and pushed her away playfully and left. I think she knows I like her now!! which she obviously already knew, but I know she likes me back, just not sure how much.
I was so mad she didn't give me attention. I confronted my friend(the one she talked to for 2 hours) in a total ALPHA way, and confided in him that iM trying to make this girl my FWB and what I should do. He knows game very well and told me that this chick has INTIMACY ISSUES. He told me that SHE said she cut off the last 3 guys dead in their tracks, like she was a QUEEN BEE killing her workers. Like she was proud of what she did!...SHE is a weirdo, but I'm attracted to fucked up chicks... haha..
So my questions are: How would you proceed?? I like her, would like to make her my FWB, but maybe LTR? Her having intimacy issues makes perfect sense in hindsight. EVerytime we got close she was so awkward. So was I , but I hide it better. SHould I call her/txt her at all?? .......IF I remove my emotions and give myself advice, I would just totally freeze her out(even though I never call or txt her) and be super charming and funny in class next week and then not go out drinking with the class after?? or should I bring a girl to our class hangouts and make her jealous??)Not sure on this one, cause of intimacy issue thing)........ DAmn boys, I need help!!!