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Thread: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

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    Default How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    Hey Gents,

    I think this is a good topic that can help a lot of people. Especially myself at the moment.

    How do you manage your time when your in the middle of freezing out a girl??? .. We've all been there. You want to call her or txt her. Theres a party you want to invite her too, but you know you just have to stay strong and hold out!!! How do you guys cope with it when your right smack in the middle of it??

    I know the answer is : "SARGE other girls", but Im talking about when you have to go to work for 8 hours and then come home to an empty pad, and its only you, and your RUNNING MINd!! Its weird, I'll be at work and I'll be fine one minute and the next minute Im teary eyed, angry, sad, hyper, hopeless, fight-mode, feeling of quitting my job, depressed, Suicidal etc....haha. this last about 2-3 minutes, but then goes away just as fast. Until it comes back an hour later. It's Fucking Frustrating!!....... WHat do you do?? ...

    I obviously don't show it and hold my alpha "don't give a fuck" mentality but its tough on the inside. I again, know that I need to have more of an abundant lifestyle with women and thats what Im going to do... But sometimes your just so busy with life,you want to have that "One" or "two" that are your go to's.... In my current situation, one go to is gaining to much control and thats the one I'm freezing out. I feel like I like her too much. and my other go to makes herself soooooo fucking available I'm turned off already!! thats why I'm tripping over the other girl. Anyways, any tips you guys have on how to stay strong during a freeze out would be a blessing!!!

    Cheers guys,

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    Default Re: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    Look for ways to improve your own lifestyle and keep yourself interesting. If you don't think you're interesting, what makes you think other people will think you are? See where I'm getting at?

    Think of places where you can go and things you can do, even if they're little things ~ as long as you're stepping out of your 'daily routine' and doing something new. If you don't cook often, try cooking one or two new dishes a week. I noticed you're in SF (San Francisco?). If so, try learning a new language - Spanish. I found that knowing a little bit of every language helps not only when you're opening/connecting with other people, but also expands your vocabulary and personal knowledge. It gives you something to talk about and have fun with.

    If you're not much of a gym person, you could go walking/running around your neighborhood. But when you're out, try paying attention to the things around you - things that don't normally stand out/things that don't belong. It'll help you when you're out sarging and also your own alertness and situational awareness.

    I know how mind-boggling it is when you REALLY want to talk to someone, but you know it's better not to. It sucks! But you have to stick it in a straw and suck it up sometimes. There's a lot you can do, but I hope this tid-bit helps.
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    Default Re: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    Hey bud,

    thanks for the reply. I do go to the gym, and work and hang with friends. Like you sad, I try to observe things in the moment and notice things around me.....

    WHat I have just noticed and is really calming me down is the fact that by going NO CONTACT I am helping myself rather than hurting myself... You just basically have to let time pass!!!!

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    Default Re: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    Hey man, i get where you're coming from.

    When i'm feeling that sensation of just texting her again i immediately start thinking about how much time I've already invested in freezing her out, how i would just ruin it in one moment of weakness.

    I'm also a guy who has a ton of interests and always has stuff i want to do but leave pending. When i have a rare night when my friends just can't go out and it seems likes there's nothing to do, i never end up just moping around the house, feeling bad about myself.

    I always have a ton of movies, books, videogames, albums on the backlog, some of the best nights ever have come from living out an amazing experience, maybe going to the movies alone or staying in and reading a book like the game. Want some good movie recommendations? Here's my rotten tomatoes account rottentomatoes.com/user/id/828080636

    But really the point is, never get consumed in you own self doubt. Do new things! Go out to a new restaurant, call that friend you don't really know or haven't seen in forever, go out and sarge alone, do stuff you have pendent and always wanted to do, or just try out some of the things i said. Always remember we're in control of our lives, not the other way around.

    Best of luck

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    Default Re: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    You're on the right track bud. Just keep us posted on anything new you find that is helping you deal with it~
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    Default Re: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    Thx Jtorres/smooth

    Im staying busy. Its crazy, Its been 2 days and every day is easier. I just have to catch myself when I start to get pissed/sad and remind myself that its ok, and that Freezing her out is actually WINNING.... Also, Talking to girls that are as sexually hot or hotter does wonders for me!! its incredible... I don't even have to run game on them, just knowing they exist and the possibility of getting them is enough for me.


    Ive been you tubing videos of tyler durden RSD, and he talks about how when you "CHerish" a girl(are basically one-itis over her) you love that comfortable feeling it gives you.. Tyler durden says that you have to make that feeling not as good a feeling, as the feeling you get when your out sarging with the boys! that rang a bell for me, and I hope it does with anyone who needs it. Its crazy how you can freak out the first or second day after a freeze out and then the 3rd day be all chill.... it goes to show how BAD you can FUCK up with a girl if you let your emotions take over and push you to CALL her and tell her You LIKE her!!! haha... Damn dude!!! It feels insanely empowering to be able to be in CONTROL of your emotions!!!.... Im almost there I feel, but damn I almost blew it!!! haha

    CHeers boys,

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    Default Re: How do you deal with your time when your FREEZING OUT a girl?

    I know what you mean...it drives me crazy sometimes. I deal with it by working out, buying clothes, hanging out with friends. Just the other day I went rappelling for the first time, that was a rush and I got some great pictures for facebook so I have an awesome DHV. Essentially I try consume my time with self improvement even if it's just sitting at home cooking myself dinner listening to music.


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