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    joos111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default SOS! New guy needs some help.

    Calling all players!! Gentleman, please help. I am fairly new to 'the game' but have some game as it is. 26 yr old, 6'4, not an ugly guy, not the dumbest one either. i know how to have sex with women done it plenty but really am a noob at picking up chicls. I still am a total loser in the bars i just make it happen through work, friends, school other outlets etc. id love to have game and meet the women i truly want. Anyways, i want to join this community and become more confident with women.
    However, as we speak i really want this grl and i know you can help. I work at a bar, this new girl just started. We worked two nights together last week. Im working tonight, she comes in socially with two girl friends from her other job ~ 145am. Turns out they are burlesque dancers from a local biker bar. She dances every Wednesday. These girls sit at my bar, everything is pleasant we have shots and laughs. I sort of feel like the girl from work has a bit of a thing for me. They tell me i have to make it down to their bar to see them dance. JUST SO TURNS OUT ITS MY BIRTHDAY next Wednesday lol, and i can prob get it off of work.

    Girl from work tells me she will give me free lap dance. I close my bar with this girl tomorrow night, my birthday is next Wednesday. I'd LOVE to potentially hang out with her she does seem like a really cool chic. Also, there is a football game in town sat id love to find someone to go with. Is it too soon to ask her? Ill have perfect opportunity tomorrow night. But mostly, id love to be with this girl on a couple different levels. Id obviously love to bed her in god like fashion but i would also love to spend some quality time with her and see if we don connect like i think we might.

    I'm a bit of a jokester but i am genuine here guys, can anyone offer advice? Im pretty sure i can get my room-mate and his gf to come with me to the biker bar. I figure if im with a best friend and a young hot chic that looks alright.

    I have great rapport with this girl so far, been funny and coy and cocky and a tad dismissive to her. Another girl from work even kissed me on the lips tonight it was perfect i really hope the stripper saw lol.

    Guys i know with the right moves this will definitely go down. And im a good mature guy with good intentions. Please help a brother out!!
    j

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    Default Re: SOS! New guy needs some help.

    Welcome! You seem like you have a lot on your plate already. How many girls are there? Co-worker, stripper and friends?

    For your Saturday Football game, don't ask her to come ~ MAKE her come. While you're working/closing shop with her, start building that comfort/rapport, but find out a few things about her and if she's an outdoor or indoor kind of person, if she likes sports, what kind of food is her favorite, anything that will give you the upper hand for the football game and/or a day 2. Then, let her know that you're going to a football game with a few of your friends, and tell her that she should come with you because *justify a reason without neediness*.
    OR give her false options: for example tell her that you're free to hang out 'this day' and 'that day.' That way, no matter which day she picks, you're still gonna see her. When she picks the day, immediately tell her specifics (ie. "Ok Saturday, [time] at [place]. Wear [color/a dress/something nice].") If she asks why, just tell her "Because I like that. :]"

    But since you're closing shop with her, build some rapport and SEDUCE! Hook, Reel, Release, Repeat! How much you NEG her depends on how much she can take *only you know through observation*. Then slam her against the bar counter and bite her neck and nibble on her ear lobes.
    Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~

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    Default Re: SOS! New guy needs some help.

    Your doing very well and the girls seem to be interested. Remember to portray the 6 of 5 alpha male traits that was famously taught by Mystery. They are:

    1. Connects well with people (emotional connection with women)
    2. Is well-groomed
    3. Is seen as the social center of the room
    4. Conveys confidence
    5. Conveys a sense of humor
    6. Smiles

    Make sure you show all these traits when your with anyone and more importantly hot girls. Never get mad and control your emotions.

    I'm just giving you basic steps to allow you to get the girls more hooked to you and look at you as The Man. You are already confident and funny which is a big plus but escalate kino.

    When you are looking to ask her out, make sure the mood is mellow, calm and comfortable and done when you have isolated her from the group. Never complement her direct looks but things like her intelligence, energy and her eyes/hair. I don't just mean compliment, show genuine interest and you can always tease her because this sparks attraction wildly.

    To ask her out just say something along the lines of "I'm quite busy this week but you seem very interesting and cool, you should come with me to xxxxx" (place you want to take her). Like I said make sure everything is cool and calm and just mention it in conversation. There is a lot for you to learn but I've given you some foundation on how to attract women and to ask them out.

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    joos111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: SOS! New guy needs some help.

    Fellas, appreciated. WIll let you know how it goes.

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    joos111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: SOS! New guy needs some help.

    Hope you guys are still reading! Thanks if you are. Here's how it went.
    We had a pretty decent night at work, ok rapport, but nothing too exciting because we were sortve busy and didnt have too much time. She did at one point make some sort of comment about spooning me which i totk as ioi.
    Towards the end of the night she was finishing her stuff sitting at a table by herself, i sat down and began to chat, she sat back down. I mentioned i was going to go out and get 'day drunk' on sat and probably goto the football game. She said she worked at five that day, which meant she knew i was going to ask her out, and hopefully because she wanted me to. We rambled on a bit and I then said i was going to a friends bbq/party on sun night and that she should probably come. she gave me her number told me to call her and that was that. it was ok, id give myself a 7.1/10. she seemed to be expecting and again hopefully wanting the ask out, it was pretty natual and she gave me her digits happily. I wasnt super on for the whole talk but i finished with a really good laugh, told her the bbg was going to be a pig roast and she'd fit right in, which i thought was risky, but she loved it.
    anyways, gonna send her a cocky funny text sun during the day, and not text her again until she texts me that night for directions or whatever. shes coming in as a stranger into a party where i will have some friends and know most the people. i do wanna spend time with her, seduce her, bring her back to my place and bang her, but i also wanna be natural at the party and be sure we are both having a good time whether together or not. I really wanna be on when she shows at the party, look cool, make her laugh a lot, drink some, and ill be in!
    any pointers, advice, tricks or general well-wishes are welcomed bros. thanks,
    j

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    Default Re: SOS! New guy needs some help.

    Don't rush to her. Talk to some other guys/girls before approaching her. When you start talking to her be flirty, tell and escalate kino etc (obviously). If you're feeling it then ask her if she wants to go somewhere quieter (she definitely seems to be into you).


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