Re: What should my score be?
Lol women will NOT guess 50 as a serious number for a guy. Unless she is joking and really isn't trying to guess at all. Yes she will think you're a player if your number is 10+. That's just the way it is.
If you focus on frame control you can do a couple of things to change it around. Such as:
- I think it's alittle early in our relationship to discuss these things
- Whoah that's a bit personal. You always get so intense so quickly?
- I will only talk about it when we go to couples counseling. As long as we discuss those strange fetishes you have.
You'd be surprised how often you don't have to answer a woman directly and just change the subject. Don Draper from the show MadMan said, "If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation."
If she gets serious and keeps pushing for an answer, then you have to put your foot down and say that you are a gentlemen who doesn't kiss and tell and she needs to respect that. If she gets mad...so what! I'd rather a woman be upset with me than not care. The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. Trust me she will gain even more attraction because you aren't budging. She will respect you and I'd rather people respect me than to try and get everyone to like me.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."