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    Default What should my score be?

    Ok, so a question I end up getting asked quite a lot either during a pickup when he convo turns to sex or after sex is 'how many women have you been with?' now during a pickup I just tease and tell her 'that would be telling' or something similar, but that doesn't seem to work after sex they always push for an answer, so is it best to drop the number to something acceptable like 6-10 or to tell the truth?

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    If they press the issue this is what i do:

    step 1: Ask them to guess
    If they guess over 50, tell them lower and guess again
    **normally i find girls guess between 20-30

    So say she guess 22,

    I will then say "Close"
    and then tell her my real number based on her guess of 22

    I tend to +/- 2-5 from her guess

    So she says 22
    i can close close, its actually 18

    I find they will normally guess what they prejudged you on, or what would be an acceptable number for you.

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    See the last time it happened I done that, when she eventually found out what it was .......which is between 20 and 30 btw the actual number shall remain my secret.......she acted as if I was a massive player and seemed really annoyed about it :/ lol

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    hmm i have had girls look at me funny, then I say something like 12 girl friends over the years and 12 rebounds lol.

    Girls are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to this stuff.. drives me nuts.

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    Yeah I know right they definitely are :/ well I always get told its a lot for my age....by women I get told this........normally reply that I started early :L was just thinking maybe I should lie and lower the number.....but thought maybe that would DLV?

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    Lol women will NOT guess 50 as a serious number for a guy. Unless she is joking and really isn't trying to guess at all. Yes she will think you're a player if your number is 10+. That's just the way it is.

    If you focus on frame control you can do a couple of things to change it around. Such as:

    - I think it's alittle early in our relationship to discuss these things

    - Whoah that's a bit personal. You always get so intense so quickly?

    - I will only talk about it when we go to couples counseling. As long as we discuss those strange fetishes you have.

    You'd be surprised how often you don't have to answer a woman directly and just change the subject. Don Draper from the show MadMan said, "If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation."

    If she gets serious and keeps pushing for an answer, then you have to put your foot down and say that you are a gentlemen who doesn't kiss and tell and she needs to respect that. If she gets mad...so what! I'd rather a woman be upset with me than not care. The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. Trust me she will gain even more attraction because you aren't budging. She will respect you and I'd rather people respect me than to try and get everyone to like me.
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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    Thanks will deffo try that out next time....I love the couples counselling one I don't understand why women want to know......I never ask...because I don't want to know how many guys have been there before me lol

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    You know....come to think of it.....I'm not entirely sure why they want to know either lol. Maybe it's something about them wanting to know where they are on the scale so they know how to "deal" with you. So if she felt you were a player she would put on her "A" game. That's my guess.
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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    Yeah gotta be something to do with validation and how 'special' they are to have slept with you :L same as if you sleep with a girl who is a bit square or frigid and get her to let loose it seems like more of an achievement what do u mean by 'A' game?

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    Default Re: What should my score be?

    "A" game as in, she's got to pull out her PUA cards lol. Probably will play more head games and give you LMR just to make herself a challenge and insure you won't leave after sex. That's just a guess.

    Could be a sign of low self esteem to. We as PUAs don't feel the need to ask because we know we're awesome!!
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