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    Default flakes piss me off - hb7 from work

    so i been talking to this hb7 i work with for a couple weeks, went out to lunch a couple times with her. She even suggested about going out by saying she owed me a drink. ive been keeping it cocky funny. but today was the 2nd she flaked on me after making plans. i hate flakes, i find it rude and disrespectful of my time. any how after the first time, i played it light hearted like i didnt care, and we both were joking about it, she was saying i flaked and vice versa (im definite she didnt show up though) any how tonight we had plans that we made earlier in the week , then a few hours before everything she started saying she had other things to do. she invited me to a family gathering shes having tomorrow but i said i was busy. when i was talking to her before i left work she said she would call/txt but i saw it coming a mile away that she wouldn't, and sure enough i was right.

    i kinda feel like after 2 flakes, im definitely not going to ask her out any more. kinda put off now what should i do,

    i want to come at her with the , hey look i was kinda feelin you, and wanted to get to know you more, but its probably better if we keep things professional.


    ideas guys?

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off

    did you ever think it could be a test to see how interested you are in her, maybe she feels that if a guy isn't persistant enough she doesn't belong with her. i know it can really make you mad at times but you gotta keep your composure and get her to set up a few dates

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off

    After 2 flakes it's obvious she's simply playing some stupid games with you or maybe wasn't interested but didn't want to be rude and reject you to avoid hurting your feelings. It's time to move on.

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off

    im in the middle of reading w. anton book, so im defineately seeing where you coming from about the persistance thing, and she is suggesting some of these plans, then doesnt show. soo idk what to do

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off

    you should pursue other wemon in the meantime so you can hone your skills and if she flakes too much for you to handle just go into no contact.

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off - hb7 from work

    Stop replying to her texts, then after a while ask her about one of her friends. As in, asking if she's single. Jealousy/ fear of loss, perfect.

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off - hb7 from work

    Keep yourself occupied with other girls...to void getting obsessed when girls. The more options you have the less you will care about girls playing games!

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off - hb7 from work

    awesome advice guys, i think what ill do is not make a big deal about it at all, act like it didnt even happen. pay less attention to her. and if try to mix in a bit of jealousy to create a feeling of loss if i can fit it

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off - hb7 from work

    The jealousy plot is a very useful tool to create an emotion reaction in a girl. Girls will do things that will shock you...to get your attention back! I have stories man!

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    Default Re: flakes piss me off - hb7 from work

    U failed her shit test by joking around after 1st flake


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