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    Default Retail Store Girl - is she interested?

    So after having several encounters at the clothing store I shop at with this girl, became comfortable with a first name basis. Well yesterday I finally asked her for her phone number she revealed to me that she remembers the first time we met, she said that it should have been exchanged a long time ago. She is totally my type to a tee! I invited her to a party at a friends house it seem I was already seeing resistance she said she might be off late. Well she did say although she is 21 she hasn't been to any of the local bars I saw this as an invitation of sorts but I countered with one of my own. She wasn't able to make it to the party (didn't think she was), so do I ask her out on a one on one date to build some rapport in hopes of having a couple more dates and f-closing? Also this girl has her head on her shoulders she works a full time job and goes to school. Any advice is welcome!
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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl

    play it cool, do not act needy, make her chase a bit.. Push-pull and kino will become your best friend.

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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl

    Thanks for the advice should I wait a couple of days to see if she wants to hangout?
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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl

    Retail associate HB's = waste of time. They are being paid to pretend to be friendly just to sell you products. She probably got hired for her looks too.

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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl - is she interested?

    They ain't a waste of time they are paid to be friendly not give you their number.......them being friendly gives you a good grounding and allows you to build rapport, makes them good practice and if you number close then it's an added bonus

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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSitch View Post
    Retail associate HB's = waste of time. They are being paid to pretend to be friendly just to sell you products. She probably got hired for her looks too.
    Pretty dumb answer bro!

    If you don't use that to your advantage your insane!!! haha. They have to talk to you cause their at work, so when you run a little game and show yourself to be different than other guys that go in there and tell her "your cute", or we should get dinner? ... you stand out.

    Its a lot easier to build rapport and comfort with people at work. Its only tricky when your trying to get her # cause she's at work.

    My advice is to ask her for a "quick" coffee or drink. Tell her you wanna meet up at some close place by her work and say you can only stay for 45minutes. Then if you like her, you'll know how to proceed.

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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl - is she interested?

    Good job bro. Just play it cool and use kino, rapport, & DHV
    When playing the game, always live on the edge. You always get rejected by every girl you don't approach.

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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl - is she interested?

    Thanks for the feedback guys all of it greatly appreciated. I need step up the assertiveness to the next level, I'll call her up directly invite her to coffee.
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    Default Re: Retail Store Girl - is she interested?

    Find something about her that seems different to the other girls (or make one up, a sort of cold approach). "You know we have been talking for quite a bit and there is something about you that I just can't put my finger on" Say this in a curious sort of James Bondish attitude.

    "How about when you're free we can get a drink because I love meeting new and interesting people, you up for it?". If she looks nervous or reluctant you can say "Don't get the wrong impress just because your cute, Beauty is common but what really makes a person is having a great outlook on life and an awesome personality"

    If she says yes without hesitation you can always add this nugget in but it's not necessary, you can go with "Awesome, I'm quite busy this week, so give me your number and I will call when I'm free and we can sort something out".

    Another way to open this up if you have already gained comfort and rapport will be to do a quick palm read but not to reveal what you have seen "Give me your hand for a sec" Scan her hand like you would for a regular palm read and ignore anything she says. Throw her hand and look up at her and with a smile say "I've just read your palm, I never told you that I can read them". You have immediately added another dimension of your personality to the girl that will have separated you from all the other guys that have "hit on her" and in turn will make you look EXTREMELY interesting.

    Follow up with "I don't have enough time to tell you what I've read and I can tell you're pretty busy and I don't want to get you into trouble" Push this further by saying "Wow, I knew there was something different about you but I didn't expect this!" This will get her buzzy with curiosity then we close this with "I'm pretty busy this week but when I get some time off I'm all up for getting a coffee and telling you about what I saw, give me your number and I will give you a call on xxx evening (or whenever you know she will be available to talk)"

    Bang, I thought of this myself and it worked wonders at a shop in town that I kept on visiting with the same cute girl there about 2 times before hand and we had conversations where I looked totally alpha, happy and non-threatening. Give it a go and let me know and if this doesn't work out then... shit happens!
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