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    Default Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    Might have had some success with a girl from work last night, here's some background.

    She moved here a few months ago with a guy shes been with for 6 years for his job. When she started working there we hit it off pretty well, we joke around get kinda flirty. That's cool.

    Last month she invited me out for her birthday. We went to a club with her BF and several people. At the club she grabs me and brings me to the dance floor, we dance pretty much the whole time and almost kissed, but I held back because her bf was there. I don't read too much into it all.

    Last week at work she starts telling me shes not feeling it with her bf, shes been with him too long and it's no longer exciting, she wants new experiences etc. I told her I'm going out saturday with a different girl from work and shes welcome to come with. We set up plans to all go out together.

    So, last night me and my female friend from work are on the way to HB9's house to drink before heading out. She tells me she thinks HB9 might be into me and thinks there's attraction. Makes sense to me HB9 gives me lots of compliments about my hair, my awesome beard that she likes.

    We get the HB9's house and have some drinks. Her "BF" is there too since they live together and he actually gives us a ride to the club...kinda awkward? At the club we dance a little bit, I work some kino, she responds well, we're all just having fun. My friend tells me she really thinks there is something going on between us...I trust her female perspective.

    After the clubs closed my friend kinda vanishes to get some food so I'm alone with HB9 sitting on a bench. We're talking as I have my arm around her, I go in to kiss her and we start making out. Awesome. Maybe this was a wussy thing to say but I ask "are we just drunk or whats up with us?" She goes "well you know there has been some built up tensions between us". We make out a little more and "BF" comes and picks us all up. I crashed on the couch and left early in the morning.

    So what do I do next? I'll see her at work soon and I want to know how to play this. I don't want to be a wuss, needy, anything like I used to be so what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    Dismantling a dying relationship is like planting a seed. You don't want to make her ever think you are trying to do so... you need to put little ideas in her head about how much fun it would be to hang out with you instead of her boring old boyfriend. Make your life seem exciting, casually bring up the super articulate story about one of your passions that you indulged in on a given day. Don't be predictable. She already told you she was bored with her borefriend... She's begging for excitement.

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    That's the angle I have been working. Trying to show her how it would be exiting to meet someone new, in a new city, and get out and live a little after having a routine with someone for so long. I pointed those things out and she goes, you know I didn't realize it but that's exactly how I feel. I tell her I already know what she's thinking even if she doesn't....it's fun.

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    Any other tips? I think I'll see her at work tomorrow and haven't talked to her since we went out.

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    Just like they always ask me on here. What is your goal? To make her your girlfriend, have fun or to have casual sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by ultracorp View Post
    Any other tips? I think I'll see her at work tomorrow and haven't talked to her since we went out.
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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    For right now I would just like to have a good time with her and try to get her in bed. I doubt shes in the mode to be serious from what I gather, and that's cool with me, I've been single for a couple months and it's been nice.

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    Those should be your intentions.. do not try to boyfriend her.. if that's what she is trying to escape from you will turn from the solution to the problem. Just be an exciting person to be around and if you can pull it off... subtly bring up in conversation the fact that you MIGHT think she is a little boring and contained... i.e. you guys hang out and she gets a plain slice of pizza... say something like "woah.. you really aren't very adventuresome are you?" you get the idea. It will make her feel some innate need to prove you wrong..

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    So I have an update I'll keep it short:

    Went out again saturday, made out a bunch at a bar and then here's where maybe I'm confused. After the bar I ended up at her place where she lives with her "bf" who she says she isn't into anymore. We're there making out pretty heavy and she says, you know if he wasn't here I'd fark you on that table right now. I say well that's a great idea lets just head to my place, just say you stayed at a friends place.

    She said no, that he wouldn't buy that and he would kick her out of the place (he pays rent). We made out a bit more and I decided to head home. I'm confused if she was really DTF or excuse making. I'm sure it would be a disaster for her if he caught us but I think we could've pulled it off. She said she's been with him 6 years so should I not blame her much for making that call?

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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    As you can see from PUA, DHV is very important. Dont let her pull your strings, some would say she is getting a rush from messing with you and playing you while she continues to fark her boyfriend. You could try the jealousy routine on her, you can also freeze her out, the ball is in your hands so let it all happen.


    Quote Originally Posted by ultracorp View Post
    So I have an update I'll keep it short:

    Went out again saturday, made out a bunch at a bar and then here's where maybe I'm confused. After the bar I ended up at her place where she lives with her "bf" who she says she isn't into anymore. We're there making out pretty heavy and she says, you know if he wasn't here I'd fark you on that table right now. I say well that's a great idea lets just head to my place, just say you stayed at a friends place.

    She said no, that he wouldn't buy that and he would kick her out of the place (he pays rent). We made out a bit more and I decided to head home. I'm confused if she was really DTF or excuse making. I'm sure it would be a disaster for her if he caught us but I think we could've pulled it off. She said she's been with him 6 years so should I not blame her much for making that call?
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    Default Re: Night out with HB9 Co Worker

    A good point for sure. One day I had lunch with her and she said she hasn't farked him in three months, so idk....shes vented to me and other people at work that she isn't attracted to the guy anymore and doesn't want to live with him so who knows? I'll be careful though.


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