Might have had some success with a girl from work last night, here's some background.
She moved here a few months ago with a guy shes been with for 6 years for his job. When she started working there we hit it off pretty well, we joke around get kinda flirty. That's cool.
Last month she invited me out for her birthday. We went to a club with her BF and several people. At the club she grabs me and brings me to the dance floor, we dance pretty much the whole time and almost kissed, but I held back because her bf was there. I don't read too much into it all.
Last week at work she starts telling me shes not feeling it with her bf, shes been with him too long and it's no longer exciting, she wants new experiences etc. I told her I'm going out saturday with a different girl from work and shes welcome to come with. We set up plans to all go out together.
So, last night me and my female friend from work are on the way to HB9's house to drink before heading out. She tells me she thinks HB9 might be into me and thinks there's attraction. Makes sense to me HB9 gives me lots of compliments about my hair, my awesome beard that she likes.
We get the HB9's house and have some drinks. Her "BF" is there too since they live together and he actually gives us a ride to the club...kinda awkward? At the club we dance a little bit, I work some kino, she responds well, we're all just having fun. My friend tells me she really thinks there is something going on between us...I trust her female perspective.
After the clubs closed my friend kinda vanishes to get some food so I'm alone with HB9 sitting on a bench. We're talking as I have my arm around her, I go in to kiss her and we start making out. Awesome. Maybe this was a wussy thing to say but I ask "are we just drunk or whats up with us?" She goes "well you know there has been some built up tensions between us". We make out a little more and "BF" comes and picks us all up. I crashed on the couch and left early in the morning.
So what do I do next? I'll see her at work soon and I want to know how to play this. I don't want to be a wuss, needy, anything like I used to be so what do you guys think?