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    Default Re: Still not getting the girl

    You have an ego problem. Be still and learn. You learn through mistakes and you grow from others advise. Do things one step at a time, and the first step is to see what you are doing wrong and follow others guidance into fixing that. If you act like a jerk no one will want to be your friend.

    I went out by myself Friday and I met 6 guys. Those guys introduced me to 10 girls. They knew I was by myself and they hooked me up with other people because they liked me. I exchanged numbers with all 16 people. Some of the guys I did not like but thats how you build a diverse social circle. Once you establish a social proof girls will approach you. Because I was approached by those 10 girls because they wanted to know who I was and how I knew the guys they knew.

    Anyways have fun and carry-on.

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    So far I have like 35 friends on Facebook, that's after I put a lot of effort approaching strangers, which by the way, most people with 500+ friends don't do anyway.
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    Default Re: Still not getting the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    You have an ego problem. Be still and learn. You learn through mistakes and you grow from others advise. Do things one step at a time, and the first step is to see what you are doing wrong and follow others guidance into fixing that. If you act like a jerk no one will want to be your friend.

    I went out by myself Friday and I met 6 guys. Those guys introduced me to 10 girls. They knew I was by myself and they hooked me up with other people because they liked me. I exchanged numbers with all 16 people. Some of the guys I did not like but thats how you build a diverse social circle. Once you establish a social proof girls will approach you. Because I was approached by those 10 girls because they wanted to know who I was and how I knew the guys they knew.

    Anyways have fun and carry-on.
    That's all fine and dandy but, I find that general advice doesn't really help me. like "be confident", it doesn't make any sense, it could mean anything. I need specific examples. Like how exactly did that night go down? Where did you meet those 6 guys. Why do you think they liked you enough to hook you up? What did you say to them? Who initiated the convo? Basically a field report. Thanks.


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