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    Default Need alternative approach to friend zone a chick who is qualifying herself.

    Had this girl I hung out with and was a pivot in meeting a girl I had a single night lay with. She attractive, yet does not has some qualities I do not like. She messaged me the other day, mentally I had friend zoned her, and was chatting mindlessly like I have. Once, she started asking questions about hanging out more and g/f related questions, I realized she was qualifying herself and told her I am not actively-looking, just open-minded. I know I handled it poorly, what are ways you guys would of handled it? I do not want to burn-bridges, never know when they will introduce you to someone your interested in.

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    Default Re: Need alternative approach to friend zone a chick who is qualifying hers

    So you don't want to hit on this girl? Surely if that's so, just act like your friends with her like normal.....I mean this is what women do to us on a regular basis and unless she's a very unusual woman she's never going to make a move on you, so just try not to flirt to much and carry on like normal. That's what I'd do personally

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    Default Re: Need alternative approach to friend zone a chick who is qualifying hers

    an open ended statement like " we can see where this goes"...?

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    Default Re: Need alternative approach to friend zone a chick who is qualifying hers

    Juan... I want to friend her not see where it goes, I'm not attracted to her. Your statement confuses me, what do you mean?

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    Default Re: Need alternative approach to friend zone a chick who is qualifying hers

    my bad, i read it wrong.

    i had this same situation, not long ago, and i just stopped talking to the girl so much and told her we could never date.

    but she still tried to feed me shots and i did give her the D one time, in my vulnerable drunken state. After that i just reiterated the fact we would never date.

    she accepted it, we are still friends, but shes still tries for my plums.


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