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Thread: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

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    Post What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    after going through all the materials, videos i finally went outside this weekend making sure i dressed properly. I made one point clear that i wont have fear of rejection while approaching women. So i met this one women on the street on Friday night she was yawning and i started my approach directly to her " Looks like a busy day at work that even the best night life of Boston is not keeping you excited"
    She stopped and replied to me yada yada yada then i asked her lets go out to the nearest bar for a drink and we were in the bar for almost 30 minutes discussing things about her work my work etc etc. Time pass by she asked my number first and i took her number too she was tired and said to me she is leaving i can carry on in the bar with other girl who was standing right behind me. I said to her are you sure she said OK and left the bar.
    Now tell me was i playing the Good guy part here should i have gone with her? Did i had a chance to get laid that night? I am confused now

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    Were you making her laugh while talking. Also you shouldnt of asked her permission you should of said something like "meh ive already checked out the talent in here, I think id rather walk you home"

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    Very good, I love that answer.

    Quote Originally Posted by Joek1988 View Post
    Were you making her laugh while talking. Also you shouldnt of asked her permission you should of said something like "meh ive already checked out the talent in here, I think id rather walk you home"
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    Default Re: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    @Joek1988
    tht's a nice advice i am just newbie trying to explore but let me say i really loved it while talking to girls....i texted her the other day just casually how is her day going on? not got any reply yet but i don't want to show myself as needy so did not texted after that...so what do you think about that?
    coming back to your question did i made her laugh NO I DID NOT we both coincidently were into same profession and talking about that the whole time....at once i commented that she looks good with her glasses ON and should not remove it she Reply "GOOD TRY"...lol

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    Your DHV was pretty low with her. She did not take you seriously, she even pawned you off to other women. I think talking about work and acting like a good guy sometimes is not the way to go. She can talk work and other boring stuff with other guys.

    If you met a Victoria Secret model would you talk about work or talk about her and how nice she is and what you want to do to her?

    Quote Originally Posted by robbiee View Post
    @Joek1988
    tht's a nice advice i am just newbie trying to explore but let me say i really loved it while talking to girls....i texted her the other day just casually how is her day going on? not got any reply yet but i don't want to show myself as needy so did not texted after that...so what do you think about that?
    coming back to your question did i made her laugh NO I DID NOT we both coincidently were into same profession and talking about that the whole time....at once i commented that she looks good with her glasses ON and should not remove it she Reply "GOOD TRY"...lol
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    Default Re: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    @ topgunningit
    i see your point...so i should have played the bad guys role imagine u were in my shoes and why u say i should have created a DHV how would u have started with the convo? maybe i think you are right when she left she said i am pretty easy going and not a perv so she can hangout with me next time but this is totally putting me in her friend zone which at this point i don't really want
    On the other hand if i would have played the bad role she would have left at the beginning don't u think?

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong :-) any expert advice

    When she said 'GOOD TRY', you should've replied immediately (with a witty smile/grin on your face) something along the lines of 'Good try? Really? You know what? (smiling) I think you can easily be the greatest pertvert of the town (cocky/funny/smiling but also keeping a dominant body language all the time. Also an unshakeable emotional state, important!) You may continue with "We just met and you already try to get into by pants or try to seduce me or you already start thinking about sex? Ohh can't believe youuu" smile cocky smile keep the confidence with controlling your body language

    I guess you got the point. You can actually come up with something better on your own! Try it!
    I strongly recommend you just get the general idea here then you can easily find spesific ways of action much more suitable for your own spesific goal or situation.

    Don't forget that the example interaction I've given above might have lasted about 15-20 secs max!

    This was my humble opinion of course
    I personally think that we must work on the traits that are missing for each of us, traits such as of a confident person or an alpha male. They call it 'the inner game'. It may help you become a natural in time...

    Good luck man


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