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Thread: How to turn the feelings around

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    Default How to turn the feelings around

    Have been seeing this girl for roughly a month. I feel like I am into her more than shes into me, I'd like to turn this around just unsure how. Hereis a text that I got from her.

    " We can make it, if we both want this enough and i know i do. Ur not like any other guy, u are way more and i am so lucky to have u in my life. God works in mysterious ways..if i hadn't relapsed that weekend i would have never met u and would have never had a chance to have something so real."

    Im pretty sure shes really into me I just want her to show it more without me sounding needy. Im staying away from farking other girls because I dont want to jeopardize this relationship...

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    hey, you are doin fine she's clearly into you and wants an ltr, just continue to emotionaly connect with her like your doin, kino escalate a little and then go for the kiss if you haven't already, though it looks like she's pretty religious so you probably won't f-close without some great level of commitment (engaged or married to) so you have to decide what you realy want. if you just want sex this is not the girl for that. good luck!

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    Ha, I probably should of mentioned this was a one night stand turned relationship, seems like guys just use her for farking. I told her I seen the inner beauty in her and want to make something of it. Just not hearing the words I want to hear...basically I want her to throw herself at me.

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    Spiritual doesnt mean religious. She relapsed means she is not always a good girl, she party hard.

    I would say if she looks cute and has a nice personality and shows that she will be a good girl to you then take your time and work with her.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    hey, you are doin fine she's clearly into you and wants an ltr, just continue to emotionaly connect with her like your doin, kino escalate a little and then go for the kiss if you haven't already, though it looks like she's pretty religious so you probably won't f-close without some great level of commitment (engaged or married to) so you have to decide what you realy want. if you just want sex this is not the girl for that. good luck!
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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    yeah, that would have been a good point to put in your post.... you should just keep meeting up with her, but kick it back a notch, you should build some raport with her and get to know her a little better, don't f-close more than like once every two weeks so you don't seem needy or like your just using her. you can do it and keep having an awesome sex life as long as you keep changing up your sexual technique. i don't think i should explain that in any farther details, you get the idea ps: i feal kinda dumb about the whole religeun thing

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    So youre thinking I should back off a little?

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    well you don't want her to get bored of you and move on to the next chump now do you? you need to keep her interested and wanting more than your willing to give, so that she can't use it to manipulate you

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    I agree with kicking it back a notch. As much as women can get all lovey dovey, so can men. Resist the urge to chat to her all the time, resist the urge to talk about missing her and liking her and continue to talk about and do things that are fun. Don't think too far ahead if she likes to party. Still keep a few other girls in the loop even if you remain faithful. It's good ballast.

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    Default Re: How to turn the feelings around

    Always be busy! ie. Have an amazing life outside of her.


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