met this girl at a park new our houses (we live very near to each other). both have dogs and we started talking last thursday. conversation lasted 10-15 minutes, pretty flirty, she asked me the time and i made her bet a drink on whoever was closer (i was, are you kidding me? i'm a genius at guessing the time). sent her a text a couple of hours later then texted a bunch friday, never meeting up. we texted a bit sat and then she invited me out to meet her and her friends. here's where it gets confusing for me. hug when i first met, very focused on me. flirty vibe. do a little dancing and then i cash in the free drink. exchange IDs (birth dates, last names, etc) and then she says something that i can't here (cuz i never lean in, like a boss). she grabs my face and speaks directly into my ear. then i take her face and kiss her. really good kiss from her, nibble on the lip, she seemed to be totally into it, no resistance. i say eww, you got lip gloss on me and i'm gonna have to give it back to you. kiss her again. then she proceeds to get awkward a little later, then more and more awkward. four of us part ways, have trouble finding a cab, eventually find one and i get dropped off first (i called the shots with the cabbie to let me out). here is the entire text conversation. why is she acting weird?
me 8/23/12 9:38 PM Hey [her dog name] fun shootin the sh1t w u earlier (tell ur owner she wasnt 2 bad herself)
her 8/23/12 9:45 PM Haha Oh hey [my dog name]. Good meeting you. Your owner was pretty cool but don't tell him. I think he already knows.
me 8/23/12 11:14 PM Oh i c uve been texting my dog...there r stiff penalties 4 such unscrupulous behavior which ill mete out when we grab a drink...lets plan 4 this wknd
her 8/23/12 11:26 PM I refuse to acquiesce to said penalties wihout being allowed to state my case. Perhaps tomorrow. I tech have plans all weekend but I can make i can squeeze in drinks somewhere.
me 8/24/12 8:22 PM Ill let u st8 ur case but u better wow me! what r u up 2 2nite
her 8/24/12 8:40 PM At a friends. And you?
me 8/24/12 10:03 PM in [part of city X] 4 a bit sounds like ure able 2 squeeze in that drink u owe me
her 8/24/12 10:04 PM Haha I'm in [nearby but different part of city Y] on a roof deck.
her 8/24/12 10:40 PM Where are you?
me 8/24/12 10:41 PM [avenue name] ave
her 8/24/12 10:43 PM That's a long ass street. What bar?
me 8/24/12 10:56 PM Actually in [part of city X] now
her 8/24/12 11:01 PM Bar?
me 8/24/12 11:10 PM Im actually walking 2ward [bar 1] & what do i c? the chocol8 martini capital of the world
her 8/24/12 11:11 PM Haha [bar 2] of course
me 8/24/12 11:18 PM Im grabbing a drink at_sign [bar 3] meet me there
her 8/24/12 11:23 PM Haha so farrrr
me 8/24/12 11:25 PM U come here & maybe theres a trip 2 [bar 2] in ur future
her 8/24/12 11:27 PM Oh really? I'm further down haha
her 8/24/12 11:28 PM Closer to the end of [notable street in city]
her 8/25/12 12:03 AM I'm gonna go home
me 8/25/12 12:04 AM no choc martinis 4 u then
her 8/25/12 12:05 AM Haha no. I gotta be up at 8
her 8/25/12 12:06 AM And we drank 3 bottles of wine
her 8/25/12 12:15 AM I lied staying here. Have fun!
me 8/25/12 12:18 AM Where is here? u clearly wanna meet up so lets do!
her 8/25/12 12:18 AM Haha still friends house
her 8/25/12 12:30 AM Gonna head back to [part of town we live in] soon
me 8/25/12 1:29 AM [part of town we live in] or [bar with similar name to our neighborhood]
her 8/25/12 1:34 AM Just got home. Night.
me 8/25/12 7:08 PM tough time connecting last night huh r u always this tough 2 pin down?
her 8/25/12 7:10 PM Lol not at all. I'm just not normally inclined to ditch friends haha
her 8/25/12 7:13 PM I told you I had a lot of plans this weekend!
her 8/25/12 10:27 PM I'm gonna be in the downtown area tonight. Text if you're around
me 8/25/12 10:53 PM I think i will b in that area where u goin exactly
her 8/25/12 10:54 PM [bar 4]
her 8/25/12 11:59 PM You coming out?
me 8/26/12 12:01 AM lookin 4ward 2 cing me 2 eh? b there in a few
her 8/26/12 12:03 AM Haha just checking up on you old man
her 8/26/12 2:38 AM Sorry the night took a downward turn. The cab debacle sucked. Honestly I wasn't ready to kiss you. I wasn't expecting it so I didn't know how to react.
me 8/26/12 2:43 AM Dunno what ure talking about 2nite was fun
her 8/26/12 2:45 AM Haha glad you had fun!
me 8/26/12 2:48 AM Yeah les do it again soon. have a good nite
me 8/26/12 10:10 AM Dog date 2day u me & the dogs what time u free b4 2?
her 8/26/12 12:21 PM Idk out at the moment
she told me a story about chocolate martinis at bar 2 when we first met and i kept the theme up.
what did i do wrong to make her go cold and what is my damage control?