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    Default What works best for youdirect or indirect approach!

    What works best for you direct or indirect approach? Yesterday I was coaching a student, and I was showing him the indirect approach and then my PUA friend recommended him to try the direct approach. To tell you the truth he got good results from both methods. Flash game can be impressive but I teach students to work on their solid game. Just because you get a girl's number doesn't mean that she will want to see you later on!

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    Default Re: What works best for youdirect or indirect approach!

    I think if u have solid inner game it doesn't really matter. that beeing said i think everyone should start with indirect approaches, DHV stories, try to use some of the techniques (especially rapport building and push and pull) u've learned on u're female friends (provided u have some), practice u're conversational skills and get rid of u're AA. When u start seeing some results (get more friends) u will get more confidence. then u will get the balls to use them on strangers in bars and clubs lastely when u're confidence is high go direct and make it sky high. I remember reading something Style said and it can't be anymore true. After a while when u're social skills become better and u're self esteem is high u go into the set talk about anything with everyone and don't hit on the target first.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: What works best for youdirect or indirect approach!

    Depends on the target and it also depends on the environment.

    I like direct game, because the women I am attracted to are typically women who kind of know what they want so I cut the field play and run towards the goal.

    I think most men use indirect game so to not offend/scare off the target? Its tricky because some targets like a direct guy. As soon as you start using indirect game she will ditch you or put you on the do not call list. That happened to me twice. Before I approach the target she was smiling real hard and I went for the indirect game so that I could establish better comfort/trust with her. Well after 5 mins that totally changed and she gave me the 'I am going to the bathroom routine'. My wing was eavesdropping and said I was too charming(nice) to her and I should have been direct especially when it came down to kino.

    I think this confuse me sometimes, when to use what and where. In Nevada, New York and Texas I use direct game all day long and get great results.
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    Default Re: What works best for youdirect or indirect approach!

    Yeah I have a couple of 'female friends' so far indirect game has work for me...but as a PUA...I am always learning! I have used indirect game with girls a couple of times..once they have shown their interested in me without me approach them 'Love at first sight" if you will!


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