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    machoman is offline PUA in Training
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    Default What happened?! I thought we had something

    Im visiting family in europe this summer. I started seeing this girl beginning of summer, and things were great. We would meet almost every day i was in her city. Even though it was hard in the beginning, I worked around the fact that she was playing hard to get. Every time we were together would turn into a makeout session. Fastforward. I went on vacation for two weeks (to greece) and we would speak a few times on facebook, but not too often-- limited internet. Two weeks go by, and now im in her city again for a few days. Yesterday I text her (not gunna lie I was kind of excited to see her) : "Hey where are you tonight?" No response. This is coming from a girl who would call me out every day, and whos responses came back at me before i even put the phonedown. Since Im here only for a couple days (Im leaving soon), I message her again today on fb (normally I wouldnt double text like that):

    DM: Hey im in the city, here to say my goodbyes. Hit me up so we can meet.
    Her (3 hours after seeing the message): Hey if i can ill let you know

    What gives? I havent responded yet and am wondering if I should. What should I say, and what can I do if she does text/call? The worst part of this whole situation is that I cant believe she doesn't even have time to say goodbye. I feel like just saying f*** it and peacing it without talking to her again.

    Thanks!

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    Jok3r is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What happened?! I thought we had something

    Don't reply. That's not a question. There's nothing to reply to.

    You shouldn't have asked the way you did. "so we can meet"? That is far too insecure and indirect. Next time be more forward: "Lets go for drinks tomorrow at X".

    If she's interested she'll either say "sounds good" or "im busy then! lets do it at Y". If she's not she'll either not reply or just find a stupid excuse.

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    inter1010 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What happened?! I thought we had something

    HeyBud,

    You had a fling..... She was hesitant to make out, and now she won't return your calls right before you leave. Don't take it so seriously man. You've known tis girl for two weeks??

    Maybe you seemed to needy. How did you respond when she was txting you back right away? did you txt her back right away? .. maybe you didn't build enough attraction and you were instantly Treating her like a gf when you weren't there yet? .. Regardless its just a vacation fling that you didn't close. BIg Deal. Plus she probably has a BF or guy she's into that will be around in the same country.


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