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    peel is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    Most of these are utility like police, boss, coworker. Some are some random friends I made. I feel a little depressed. I thought about it and had the chance to get a girl's number today but I realized I dont want some fake number just like the fake number of friends I had on facebook which I artificially increased dramatically. This girl was pretty darn boring to me and despite her being fairly attractive she just left a sour taste in my mouth from talking to. My goal is to get 1000 contacts and.or more on my phone until the limit exceeds. But they have to be real friends or at least people I connect with enough to be worth contacting again and I can trust wont play text games or blow me off and not respond.
    Thoughts and advice appreciated.

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    petro is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    Next time your in a conversation where you think you've built enough comfort with a girl to ask her phone number just do it. How would you have known if the number was real or not without actually doing it? If the number was real maybe you could have made a connection with her on a later date. Even if the number was fake its still good PRACTICE and with practice makes perfect. Best of luck with your goal!

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    peel is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    Thanks but I wasnt scared the number was fake. I just didnt like her enough to ask her. It was more about the conversation then how she looked (she looked nice). Also, there was a chance she would give a fake number too so youre probably right

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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    Dont worry bro. You dont need 1000 numbers , just 20 good fun loving contacts.

    If you ever have plans for something, message all 20 of them, see what they are up at least 2 will be free.

    To get the initial 20 contacts, just approach girls in Cofee Shops etc

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    peel is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    Youre probably right. What I meant initially was I didnt want 1000 contacts and 99% of them being people who wont respond or are even considered friends

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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    nothing wrong with 36 contacts, how many people do we actually talk to on a daily basis .. even weekly.

    and I know what you mean, many times I can talk with a chick and if she is boring as hell, i gotta leave unless she is a HB9+ in my books.

    so don't feel bad, if you dont connect with her, dont waste ur time and move on to the next sarge

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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    quality over quantity...........

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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    I know what ya mean too dude. I've gotten plenty of girls numbers, but some are boring or we just didnt connect for whatever reason. My problem is I get busy with work and dont have the time to get to know them right away. After a while, more common with online dating site girls, you'll message them and their reply is "Who's this". lol Do you guys leave contacts like these on your phone for possible reconnection later?

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    Default Re: I have 36 contacts on my phone after my entire life.

    I was pretty much in the same place dude about 1-2 years ago when I read the game. Literally had 32 friends on facebook, only 2-3 who I actually talked to. Now when I look through my phone I have about 30 random girls numbers, a few guys numbers who I met through PUA meetings and stuff (I live in LA so there's a whole bunch of people I've met through forums and seminars) and know that I can go out and do daygame and have at least the chance of getting a girls #. Still don't have a ton of luck, I get flaked on a lot when I get the #s but at least they're not fake and like you I only ask for the #'s I genuinely want. The first number I got was fake, the first gf I got last year broke up with me cuz I was being AFC, but I'm learning and you can too just keep at this and don't give up!


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