Currently gaming a sweet blonde who is basically a FWB but we've put no title on it...shes a good girl and we know were just having sex, with no attachment.
Anyways heres my dilemma. Im into a this brunette HB8.5/9..... Were in the same class and have hooked up or the first time about a month ago... After we hooked up she missed two classes in a row. ( Class is once a week). Was she avoiding me? DId she like me and was scared to see me?? .... Anyways she comes back to class, this was 3 weeks ago. We chat and make plans to grab a drink before class the following week. We grab a quick one and have a great time. I kino, run some game, and she laughs at everything I say. I buy her a $4 dollar drink. After class we all go to a bar. She basically sits with another guy at the bar for an hour and talks to him.. the rest of our class and me are outside and i notice but stay calm. She then comes outside to the rest of us and sits on this other guys lap in front of me. SHe is a TJI/R and I feel she wants a reaction from me. Though some of the class says she's into this other guy which I just ALPHA up and don't react.
Anyways as she was leaving I walked her to her car, and because I was internally pissed she talked to other guy instead of me, I kinda cavemaned her and threw her on her hood and slapped her butt. She wasn't upset but kinda smiling, but not totally happy. She left and that was two weeks ago. I obviously don't call, or txt her ever. Only when I built the attraction some months back and she was the one always txting me. I only txt now to set up hang outs. Which we've had two so far.
So this week in class I was anxious to see her,and saw her talking to the guy people say she likes, but Im not sure if their into each other or not, it doesn't really matter honestly. I was still pissed inside about her actions at the bar the week before. So I ignored her, not seeming needy, and when we saw each other I said hey bff and we hugged and she gave me a strong one... Later in class, I sat next to another girl and she saw me talking to her the whole time( giving her some of her own medicine) and then she saw me talking not the phone with another girl.... I left class early and didn't hang out at bar after with everyone...
So basically I dont really call or txt her. We are attracted to each other, and I want her. WHat should I do?? Should I initiate more contact and invite her out somewhere?? I feel like If I text her I'll give my power away and seem needy. But I don't really txt her at all. What should I do?? Damn its hard when the games on your side of the fence,,,,